Pain is Evolution
With out failure, mistakes, pain and suffering, there is no empathy nor evolution of self. And as this occurs, the ways we learn, grow and interact with our future encounters we build on our inner character. You either become a product of your enviroment, or you rise above it and set the vibration limits to new heights. The same is said for the evolution of humans as a whole, as a species, on the sublime, constantly evolving their character behind the scenes, which in large part effects the whole, and forces mankind into another vibration of its evolution. Believe it or not, you are part of this collective evolving construct: Humanity.
What do you want it to evolve to?
You can be all that you limit yourself to be...