A Woman's Cunning Technique

in #steempress8 years ago

Have you ever heard the term guilt trip? Or maybe you have applied it either consciously or not. Usually this guilt trip is often done by women. Bisateman, family, girlfriend. even though our parents often practice this feeling manipulation technique, it's more a mother (definitely a woman). Although sometimes men are not quiet from the use of this technique.

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Guilt Trip or literally means "trip error" is a technique of manipulating emotions carried out by someone to make other people feel guilty. Avoid arguments and want to win. this technique, namely by overloading his opponent as if he himself was wrong. That's why I say that women tend to apply more of this technique regardless of intentional or not.

I will give an example of how a guilt trip is done by a woman towards her boyfriend.

Woman: brother ... Pick up later at 8 o'clock ...
Man: Yeah ... but it's a bit late 5 minutes because you eat chicken for a while ...
Cew: Brother does love chickens more than me ...

Honestly, we can leave it alone once or twice, but if you continue to do something like this, someone's emotions will be irresistible? When we reprimand a boyfriend's mistakes, then we end up being blamed and we apologize.

There are two advantages that can be obtained from this technique, the first is because women feel unable to fight male arguments so that "feeling manipulation" is considered more effective. The second is because the god's ego makes him want to be justified and followed by others, people like this always want to be heard without wanting to hear.

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It's easy for us men if if the guilt trip is a boyfriend, friend, or anyone, it doesn't even matter.

Far away, the effects of the frequency of a person being pressured by a guilt trip technique are also two.
(1) emotional outbursts that are no longer blocked when people are no longer able to be patient with the often felt blamed.
(2) The longer people will get away because if not this is the same as approaching disease.

Obviously now, when someone feels he is trapped in a guilt trip from his girlfriend, it could be that the person immediately asks to break up. <br /><center><hr/><em>Posted from my blog with <a href='https://wordpress.org/plugins/steempress/'>SteemPress</a> : https://alfadkausar.000webhostapp.com/2018/11/a-womans-cunning-technique </em><hr/></center>

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