Judgment || A Thought-provoking day...

From the past few weeks, I have been addicted to a few podcasts, radio shows, and documentaries. I have a weird habit. Whenever I start watching something or start doing research on something, I never fall back/ step back I mean I never stop until I found my answers. In fact, I used to see many documentaries on the National geography channel and on the Discovery channel just to gain knowledge, explore and learn about reality and real facts.

I never wanted to fall behind and I was open to explore and learn about any topics. I still remember the day when I started watching a documentary series called Taboo. I came to know about many unusual happenings that are restricted or prohibited from our society, I think that's why those facts are known as Taboo. One of the interesting series was about prostitution and why Pattaya, Thailand is famous for prostitution. I started digging more and came to know the connection between human trafficking and prostitution.

Trust me, I was shocked, I was devastated and for a while, I couldn't swallow the real story of a prostitute. Later, I decided to do research on the dark world of Pornography, don't get me wrong. Please, don't judge me, it's really important to know background story because SEX SELLS, believe it or not. Nowadays, Porn Industry is doing huge business in this world and many people are addicted to porn. But behind the scene, so many incidents are happening which are dark and untold...

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Let me tell you the exact real fact, we love to judge people, agree with me or not, you choose. Whenever we hear a story, we go to the conclusion before knowing the background story and start judging the individual. It's our nature and we do it perfectly. I know it's easy to accuse people, it's easy to judge people, we judge people according to the facts what they have done but we never want to learn the background story of a crime. Many people say, "don't hate the criminal, hate the crime" if I am not wrong. I was thinking this for a long time why people say this, then later I understood it...

Unfortunately, whenever I tried to express my opinion either I was insulted by others or I was forced to stop in the name of feminism. I know I don't know everything but whatever I know, I think I have my own perspective on the basis of that.

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How many of us actually wanted to know the story of a prostitute? None of us, I guess. Instead of hating the prostitution, we hate prostitutes. We blame them but we never wanted to know why they are into this business.

I am going to finish this post writing a real story of my own. When I was a teenager, I used to talk with boys but I was not allowed to talk with any boys. My family never permitted that because they felt that the teenager period is a crucial period for an individual. Anyway, when my family came to know that I talked to boys, not only they harassed me, abused me but also my entire society rejected me saying I am a bad or spoiled girl just because I used to talk to the boys. Maybe be they were a concern, conservative and overprotective about me, maybe they thought I will take any wrong steps but instead of making me understand the facts, they choose wrong steps and executed them on me.

I am an adult now, I have no complaints about it or I can understand their perspective too but my point is instead of understanding and dealing with the sensitive situation they took direct steps which later caused big issues. And as usual, I had to pay for my own society's judgment...

Anyway, I always say, I am no one to judge people or judge anything because I feel I don't have the ability to justify the human being...

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