regret won't change anything it only worsen it

hmmmmmmm, let me start by saying that whatever opportunity we have in life let make use of it. oh yes use it. I mean it dear. often times I hear people saying I wish I had done it at that particular time, I wish I had said yes to it then. that is it, regret won't stop any thing at all, it will only worsen the whole issue.

finding love is not easy at all, by the time you find love, you may have grown old and grey, you might look back at your life thinking and regretting you realised earlier, when your hair was still bright with colour, that the quests for love that you have undertaken were fruitless from the beginning.

you might wish you could change things or better still turn back the hand of time, you might feel the frustration in finding love, you now know that it was all wasted.

You might wish you’ve had a different life. Breathing a bit more deeply. Enjoying a bit more fully. Experiencing all the sensations of the joy of living in a human body just a bit more intensely.

You might wish you didn’t try so hard, because it blurred your sight and you didn’t see all the beauty that surrounded you. You didn’t realize just how magnificent you looked, smelled and tasted.

You might wish that only this one firm belief would have been engraved in your mind, for you know now it was always there in your soul: you are all you really need.

All the love you have ever been looking for is already present right inside you. All these people you longed and looked for reminded you. Showed you another glimpse of your own beauty. And therefore could never be lost and never needed chasing after.

All you need is right here, right now. Breathe, take a step backwards and look at yourself. What would the grey and old version of you want to share with you today?