WHY COUPLES SHOULD PLAN TOGETHER: MY VAL STORY

Great Minds,
My Valentine Day plan hit a Hard Rock and all the things I thought was a fantastic idea ended up in my brain all because I never discussed it with my lovely wife. I was planning all by myself and feeling cool with it without having any hint on what my wife has in stocks. She was also planning without telling me too. At the end I lost my way and she had hers. Her plans was handy and very on point, speak more volume of love and care the reason for the day.

(picture of my Angel and I during our traditional marriage)
MY VAL STORY

My people, like I posted a day to Valentine's Day, I put up my plans on how I intended to spend the Valentine's Day but I never factor in my dear sweet lady. While I planned to spend it outdoor, my angel had it planned for all indoor. Our plans were entirely different but we would found a compromising ground should we planned together but it was not so. Read the post of my plans for the Valentine's Day here:
https://steemit.com/nigeria/@princeso/how-i-intend-to-spend-the-so-called-valentine

Now Take a look at how my dear wife made the day sweet.
Early morning we had our prayers and everyone went his/her way to work. After work I came back home expecting to take her and the kids out. I met a different scene, the house was scenting sweet, my wife was ready to show me how much she love me. She killed a Foul and prepared fried rice and salad. It was a great sight, my son ran to greet my and started telling me about what mummy had set on table. I was speechless for some time before I could embrace her and told her "I love you".

(photo of the meal prepared by my wife on Valentine's Day)
Well I so much enjoyed myself eating the delicacy and playing with my family but deep down me, it was not cool, I felt bad a bit because my plans never seen the light of the day. The whole thing looks simple but enriching and full of fulfilment. I steal my wife smiling as I licked my lips as I enjoyed the delicious meal.
This had taught me a great lesson in life to always discuss anything out with my wife to avoid unnecessary tension. I would lost a great deal if I had pay for a venue already. There are a lot of bad interpretation in planning alone. Including lack of trust, you will be misunderstood and the good idea in share information and creating would be lost. You have a lot to lose when you keep to yourself and plan alone. While you also stand to get gain a lot in collaboration with your spouse. The bond of love between the spouse is strengthened when issues are discussed together.

Live sweet and enjoy life

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