🇳🇬 Why Men love Bitches🇳🇬

My Aunt ,Aunty Bola a strong woman.
I would be writing about my views on this topic “WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES”. Now please the word “BITCH” in this write-up shouldn’t be taken to seriously am using it as it can relate to what many women feel and not in an offensive way.
Now, that we have cleared the issue that may arise from the word in the title of this post, I would like to put my view across on this sensitive issue which has broken a lot of relationships.
Every woman has had one or more men chase after them, only for most of these men to lose interest after she gives in. this is a very common issue that occur to most women, single or married.
Why is this so? As I said earlier the word used in the post {Bitch} doesn’t really mean she should be way-ward in dressing and flirt with every man that come across her. The woman {Bitch] am talking about here is a kind but yet strong who doesn’t give up her life and chase after men for financial reasons or to be seen. She doesn’t allow a man think he has 100% hold on her, and stand up for herself when he over steps, but in a moderate way, a woman that’s soft inside but steel on the outside, though not taking undue advantage of men, because she always play fair.
She’s a nice girl but possess one thing a nice girl lacks “a presence of mind’ not easily swept away by romantic fantasy and have the ability to remain cool under pressure, whereas a woman who [too nice] gives and gives until she’s depleted knowing when to pull back.
As a man I would say most men like a woman with a bit of an edge to her, success in love isn’t all about looks is part of it but attitude is needed, she’s properly empowered and not depending solely on the man for everything. I see most woman around me here in Nigeria happy she’s a house wife who depend solely on the man for survival and I shake my head, if anything happens to the man she would have little or nothing to fall back on or she won’t be able to support her man in family up keep. I for one empower my wife, she works at a government health center here and also have a shop where she returns to she manages it so well. I visit her shop always when returning from work to see my daughter [she returns to her mum shop daily from school] and we both help out in the shop however we can and we go home together, this is just citing an example of why every woman should be empowered in any way each deem fit.
Credit to SHERRY ARGOV in trying to change the perspective of women to a stronger one.

These are just some of my view to women in our society its not all about dressing up and running after men its about being a nice yet strong woman that men would love to plan their future with.
My lovely wife

Thank you for reading this little piece from me, if you would love to read more from me you can comment below and also your view about this issue would be appreciated.
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