a message to my girl child

Do not beg for love.I don't care what they've told you ...I don't care what they've made you believe .Do not force someone to love you .it will bite you hard in the ass.The pain will burn you deep in your guts because because that's not how love works ...love is a choice love knows who it wants .okay let's do this quick example for once when last did you enjoy the food the food you were forced to eat ? You ate it but your being was filled with disgust and you knew after that you weren't going to eat it again please don't be that "food" you are worth more than that disrespectful shame.you are beautiful handsome and a human of good substance you are worth more than the degradation you are subjecting your being toDo not let someone see you as dormat .someone to hold unto when they are feeling needful of affection just for that moment .it wouldn't last as they are just using you to their own pleasure .you are worth to be loved ,and adored the right way.I know its difficult to put into practice .I've been there too I'll tell you this .once you understand that love is given freely ,love is best when the person truly loves you then you'll walk away from anything that tries to block the way for you to meet the right person .
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