I really hope your daughter can continue with her gymnastics. She is good at it and it is doing her good. I hope that conscientious dads reading your post feel encouraged by realizing how important their role is in a family, because I think in our society they are often not given the credit or respect they deserve.
It is obvious, @gardengirlcanada, you are doing your best as a mom to provide for your children's needs under challenging circumstances. I wish you strength and courage!