Do you belive in destiny ? Is HE the Only One ?

in #love7 years ago

 Do you believe in fate? The assertion that each person has a "soul mate" predestined? If you believe that the ideal person is waiting for you there somewhere, how can you be sure that the man with you is the Chosen One? 



We often consult with friends and people who know each other very well, whether they approve of our partner and what their opinion is. For example, these days I am ask my sons, my mother , my sister ... From these converastaions  I came to two questions :

Do you love this person? 



In this case, it is not a question of whether this person attracts you sexually, whether he is beautiful or make you laughs . It's not about whether it's interesting to be with him. It is important to ask if you are willing to share your life with this man - whether you are willing to share your last meal with him , if you imagine 20 yesrs after ...My answer is yes , i gladly will do all this . True love means being able to share, to indulge , to give because you want ...



The other question is -

Is my life better, thanks to this relationship?



 I just close my eyes and imagine what my life would be without you. How will I feel if the relationship is terminated.... I put aside the momentary emotions, the fear of staying alone ( i was long time alone ) and the sense of affection. I ask myself what my life would look like without this YOU .The answer is my life will be just gray, maybe i can life like this but why ? You make my world colorful and you make ME a better person !



I answer honestly to these two questions, so yes i belive YOU are my soul mate. You are the person whom makes me feel good, smile and gives me  security. I can not imagine what you would do without you  - finaly in my life i have discovered MY  soul mate.I LOVE YOU !


                         

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I love you... you are the queen of my heart. We will be together forever.

<3 <3 <3 Love you too :)

Really great post thanks!

Thank you fo reading

But yet shes the only one and thank you for this wonderful insightful post thank you thank you with love

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That is a very touching blog which makes us all think about the importance of love and meaningful relationships! Thanks so much for sharing, @patelincho

Thank you for visit and read , this post is because my love :)

I don't believe in "the one" I believe in working for what you want. I believe thoughts like that are unhealthy for relationships

How can be unhealty for relationships ? Wow , i am really surprise from you :) There is somone just like you , wish you the lucky to found him ( or maybe the destiny :)

I think that at different times in our life we have that soul mate but life and we change over the years, so the people around us, and what we wanted before is not like that anymore. Life gives us opportunities to find those soul mates Along our way and enjoy it, but it will always depend on us to maintain and care for that love and how long it will last, which may be for a time or forever.

Sure evry love is related to things we do . Its related to how much we want to give , how much we want to work. Love needs to be keept live every single day !

love is not about finding the one,it is about being the one..Once you start loving yourself completely evrything around you will be worthy of falling in love with

Ohh , the first step of love people is love yourself ! And i do not agree not everyting , and not everyone is worth love ....

Whats the meaning of love if only those who are worthy of it recieve it!!Love is bigger than that!!

I dont say this , every one can resive or give love , not every one is worth to be loved . This are 2 diferent things !

beautiful ! nice post

Thank you :)

you're welcome

Is my life better, thanks to this relationship?

Great way to look at things. Followed :)

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What a wonderful steemit love story dear @patelincho and @jphenderson! Wishes you plenty of prosperity in your amazing relation!
Cheers to love!
@progressivechef

Thank you very much :)

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