Why do I care about your opinion?

in Motivation Story3 years ago

Not all opinions matter, do you know why?


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For a long time I have been a complete believer in this and I also apply it in my life; which has left me incredibly positive results.

Remember, how many times have we been told that all opinions are important and that everyone has the right to express what they think?

And yes, that is very good. I am a believer and practitioner of democracy so that we can all manifest ourselves, however, trying to give the same value to all opinions is very different because doing so can be very dangerous.

Internet have been in charge of giving platform to all the people around the world. Therefore, today there is a concert where although we are the group of people we want to build, there is the other group that makes the decision to attack and destroy everything that is in their environment. They have managed to do the latter with just a couple of clicks.

Now, if we were accepting the opinions that are made to us daily, we are automatically delegating our decisions to all the superficial, selfish or ignorant opinions that people who simply do not like what we are doing make us.

By accepting all these opinions, we are automatically condemning our destiny to what other opinions want to express, resulting in a departure from what we really want.

At the end of it all, the greatest virtue we have to grow will be to choose very well who we want to have as life counselors. These people should be those who, with arguments, results, tact and much appreciation, tell us what they feel; the purpose of this is to selflessly help us achieve our goals.

It should be noted that the main advisor of our destiny is ourselves. For this reason, I invite you to learn to listen to us, feel us, question us and encourage us. In self-knowledge we have the key to growth.

When we discover our essence, we begin to give more importance to our internal voice before anything else. And it is from this right moment when there are no longer doubts and fears, giving the absolute step to conviction and action.

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