MY FRIENDS, MY DECISION.

in #friendship9 years ago (edited)

Hello fellow Steemian, allow me to start with the quote below which actually inspired me and I feel I should share it here then add some few thought to it. This is @optimistdehinde.friends 1.png!friend 8.jpg
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‘’It's time to clean your house of garbage and surrender any destructive thoughts in your head to rational reasoning.
No more will you allow negative people to scramble your brain.
No more will you dwell on painful uncomfortable times.
Let go means - let Go!
Make it a priority to keep investing in yourself and your well-being.
Make room in your life for happiness, success, healing and fulfilling relationships.
Before you know it, you will start felling entitled to Abundance and this is as it should be...Because you are NUMBER ONE!’’
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If you allow negative thoughts to fill your heart then the ability to think straight and positively would be hindered and you might not be able to explain WHY?

A negative thought regularly takes over someone’s life when you surrounds yourself with pessimist who never appreciates you when you do something good or inspiring but only when you are wrong. They are always looking for your mistakes.
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Look at this simple question ‘’HOW DO YOU CHOSE YOUR FRIENDS?’’ This is a very good question.
It is better to be the one choosing your friend than allowing your friends to choose you. When you are the one taken this is decision or initiative, it help you to decide and to know who comes into your life and who should not.
You cannot afford to allow just any dick and harry to have access into your life, because if you do, it either the person(s) MAKES you or the person MARS (destroy) you.

It has been proven overtime that for anyone or anything you give access into your space comes with a mission to fulfill either to add or to take from you (i.e. the adding or taken it can be positive and it can be negative).

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Someone try to explain each Alphabetical letters that makes up the spelling of friend to mean;

F – Find ways to comfort you
R – Remembers to pray for you
I – Inspires you
E – Enjoys life with someone like you
N – Never forgets you
D – Defend you no matter the situation.

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The kind of friend you keep can determine how far you will go in life. Such friends can determine your level of influence, success, achievement, intelligence, exposure, happiness, thinking, fulfillment and so on. Therefore, you cannot afford to choose wrongly but rightly.

‘’Make sure you have friends whose presence you cannot do without because of their positive impact in your daily growth, and whose absence you can’t afford because you are also a positive influence that they cannot do without”. Osho Oladehinde

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It must be a balanced relationship and not a parasitic one!

It is time to actually do some cleaning so that the right set of people will be the ones available for your journey to the top.

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You got my upvote

thanks bro . You are the best. K-money

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