Contest| "Love and Money!"

in Steem4Nigeria2 months ago (edited)

Love is always sweet when you meet the right person at the right time, not the right person at the wrong time, God always allow us to meet the wrong person at the wrong time, so that we can learn something from it, so that when we meet the right person we will never joke with the person at all..

Have you ever been served a breakfast, I mean (heartbreak) or do you know anyone who has had a heartbreak. Share with us.

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Yes I have a touching 💔 heartbreak, there is my story Something once happened during our undergraduate days in Benue state university. I once went in the company of my Guy to see my girlfriend then, but surprisingly she wasn't there in her room. She was always there in the evenings and hadn't been home for the third evening in a row. Her roommate told me she went out and shockingly advised me not to wait, as I used to wait in the past, but to go back.

Because I found that suggestion suspicious, (she always wanted me around), I decided to hang on and wait. Ladies and Gentlemen, the next thing I saw before I could say "Jesus", was she coming back, all lovey dovey and entangled, in the company of another guy. She said that the Guy was her Classboy. They were giggling and playing, drooling over each other while they walked in.

She was shocked to see me and asked why I didn't call to announce my visit. I simply said that I didn't wish to call that day. When she said that the Boy meant nothing to her, and was merely escorting her home from evening class, I just asked her to thank the Guy for me, or let me thank him myself, for helping my girlfriend get home safely. She refused. Then, I told her to either ask the dude to leave since she said he was more of an escort, or let me go. She didn't know what to do. Things happened so fast and I simply walked away from her compound, removed her from my heart, dropped my feelings for her at the entrance of her compound, and moved on to freedom.

Needless to say, after the Dude left later that night, she came over to my house and wanted to waltz back into my life. Too late!

🔻Does genuine love without money exist? Explain

Only the encouragement, care, attention and many more you show to each other's is more better than money in each relationship if you didn't know...

In this our generation is very hard before you will see genuine love with money, it only fews girls that will suffer with the guy when he is broke that will give him that genuine love..

This is our 2years now that I am dating this girl, she have never asked me for anything about money, because she see it as she is disbursing me anytime she ask me for money, Sometimes we even have issues about that money aspects..

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Like the girl I am dating now, I can say she is doing the right thing which is the genuine love, she is not after my money, she always gives me advice when I am falling, she always talk to me, she always try her best to hear from me in a day 5 times before day break, She have even tell me that when things have been better with me I should not forget her, because her last relationship when things were worse for her ex boyfriend she was with him but when things get good for him, he breakup with her, that please she doesn't want to face any heartbreak again..

I remember when I was telling her the change in steemit platform last week about me not seeing votes, she try her best to encourage me to never lose Hope that I should have that believe that Every Hustler have a pay day...

🔻If you were given the opportunity to choose between money and love, which would you prefer? State your reasons

I will choose love over money because if eventually I didn't have money the girl will not stay, hardly in this generation that you will see girls that comes for true love, Some girls comes for money that all, I will go for love because love brings family together, love is something that nobody can buy with 💰 money..

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🔻It is true that money answers to all things, in your own understanding, can money answer to love?

Money can't answer to love because money can't buy love....

I am inviting @kuzboy @patjewell and @josepha @saintkelvin17, @wakeupkitty to participate in this contest.

Thanks for reading 🙏

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 2 months ago (edited)

Money is very important and good in every relationship, but then care, attention, encouragement etc in a relationship is worth more than money as you have rightly stated.

Your kind of girlfriend is really hard to find this days, the genuine love she has for you is really amazing 😊, and I will also beg on her behalf that you shouldn't break her heart just like her ex boyfriend did, cause her type is rare😍

I wish you success✨

I will not break her heart no matter what happens...

Thanks for your great comment I really appreciate

 2 months ago 

It my pleasure 😍

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 2 months ago 

You have written well my friend, and you have also made the right choice which is love. A lot of people are in a relationship because of financial gains, so if you are luck to find a girl that loves you genuine please hold her tight, because true love is hard to come by. I wish you success

Thanks for your great comment I really appreciate

 2 months ago 

My pleasure ♥️

 2 months ago 

hey dear ur story is very touchinng and importanse of finding true love. its wonderfull how you staying in strongs through heart break and now have a wonderfull relationship.wishing you the best of luck in the contest.

Thank you 😊 for passing by

Such a touching and lovely story , love overcomes all the problems and trials of life, love is kind, patient and of them all everlasting but money does not give you all of this. You have made a very wise choice by choosing love over money , best wishes my Friend

Thanks for passing by Friend 👏👏

 2 months ago 

Smiles, i love your entry.
Thank God for saving from high blood pressure when you saw you woman with another man
I wish you success in your entry

Thank you 😊

 2 months ago 

We need money because without we have nothing to eat en even with no food because of all those bills.

Poverty does change most love couples especially if they fight about what to buy, save for and to sacrifice. With a personal financial plan with goals set these fights can be avoided.

I'm like you, no one fools me, or backstabs. I walk out and close the door forever. Sounds you did a good thing. True love doesn't start with a bag of money plus the ex could have worked herself if she needs anything. If people ask, manipulate in name of love 🤢 these are parasites.

Sounds you have found a great girl and I know what she means. I have the same experience. If you help a guy out of the gutter he dumps you as soon as he's back on his feet and has self-esteem. The reason? It's not cool to say thank you and hang around with someone who knew you during the worst days of your life.

With the love of your life you stay in a smal hut sleep on the floor and keep eachother warm.

🍀❤️

Thanks for your great comment

Really sorry for experiencing such heartbreak, it must have been difficult to go through that situation, but thank God you were able to walk away and finally finds your true love. You both look good together and I wish you all the best.

Thanks friend

You are welcome

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