You Need to Start Taking Responsibilities For Your Actions

One thing we are very good at is apportioning blames, looking for who we should blame for our failure, looking for who we should blame for our irresponsibilities and misconducts.
We are very good at trying to apportion blames, like he was a source of distraction to me, if he did not come into my life, I would not have failed at all, but his presence in my life caused all of this failure.

One thing I do not understand is if you are saying that someone's presence in your life made you fail, were you sleeping when the person was going through the process of making you fail or what exactly were you doing at that point?

These are questions you should ask yourself whenever you want to start blaming someone or when you want to start making another person become responsible for the setback in your life.

One thing I want you to understand is that no one has the power to make you fail, no one has the power to ruin your life except you give the person permission to do that. You are the sole pilot of your life and no one can successfully run your life except you permit.

Rather than apportioning blames all the time, why don't you get a grip and begin to work towards making things get back into shape.Take charge of your life once again and begin to get responsible for all that happens around you.

When you have a mindset that you are responsible for all that happens to you, then it will make you more serious, more focused and definitely more hardworking.
I am sure you will not want any failure at all for yourself, so all that will be in your mind and that will be your focus is how to make progress.

Rather than sitting all day to apportion blame, do something positive for yourself and become responsible for your actions.

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