TOXIC RELATIONSHIP

in #esteem6 years ago

For some days now, I have been willing and driven to write about having toxic relation-ships. Now; when I inscribe relation-ships, I don’t mean just relations with an opposite gender, I refer to relations that takes place or happens between two or more persons.
Relationship can mean friendship or even a communal activity done with others. Relationships can occur at any given phase, as long as you are interacting with another individual.

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However, as much we are humans and we cannot do without relating with others; often our relationships with others tends to turn bitter because not all humans are 'happy' with having successful people around them.
There are some set of humans that their greatest gift or talent is to spread vileness. This kind of individuals act normal on the outside, but knowing them may turn you bitter! Although its not always their fault, but never allow yourself to be a specimen of their bitterness!
You see; relations can turn toxic at any point in time. It may even be from the first day of such relationship but it may go unnoticed, because as humans; we tend to let go of things that are hurtful to us out of the irony of likeness! For example; someone i have a soft spot for may have an attitude that is way bad for my reputation but because of my likeliness for him/her, I may just overlook it and continue having relations with that person.
For positive growth, I think one needs to be weary of toxic relationships. If you are in a friend-ship situation with anyone and they don't support who you wanna become,or they don't motivate you to be better? That friendship is toxic!
Also, if you have relations with people that take defaming other people as their priority for growth, you are still in a toxic relationship! These kind of people would always seek to bring you down when you rise up to reign!
If when you tell them your problems, the only thing they do is to laugh at you when you are gone; or is to spread rumors? They are toxic to you! If you as a person glorifies yourself in derailing other people's growth or stealing other people's ideas? You are toxic!
Toxic people would never allow you to think straight neither would they support you in trying out new things that can help you, all they do is help you to think that your dreams are greater than you and that you are incapable of achieving anything!

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Stay away from toxic fellows! As an individual, don't be toxic! Aim for positiveness and don't bring others down in the process!

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