Did you ever look back and wished you never cried?
When things we do not like happen to us, we cry. Sometimes, people shed tears of joy when good things happen too. I have had a good time with both. I cry almost for everything; either good or bad. Lol!
Anyways, I am referring to the bad situations that make us cry. Not exactly some irredeemable losses like death and other deformations. But broken relationships, business disappointment, failures etc. How many times have you cried for things like this? Then after some months or maybe years, you looked backed and gave yourself a burst of wild laughter for being so stupid and naive to have cried for such things?
Well, that has happened to me a couple of times. I just go through the memory lane and wish I never allowed those things hurt me. Something, I burst into loud laughter because I could not understand why I would be crying for such irrelevant or not so good things.
Sometimes, what makes us cry today, are actually happening so we could have a taste and a feel of better things. So when next you face business or job disappointment, a broken relationship, do not cry your eyes off. You know why? Some things and some people just have to leave so better things can find their way into our lives.
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Those experiences have their place in making you stronger. That is why you can look back without feeling any more hurt.
Men doesn’t cry 😭 and I’m yet to fully understand why lol 😂
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That means I need to switch gender because I couldn't hold the tears few days ago
Hmm 🤔 why?
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Not all. A lot of men cry.
In Chinese we say "一切皆过眼烟云”，which means all are like floating smoke and passing clouds.
That's true. Life is a passing phase.
Excellent review @ogoowinner and you're right, should not cry for failures, you just need to find a solution to the problem!
True.
I think everybody has some times for crying that no need.
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Perhaps they do.
The past one week has been hell and still trying to figure out why it has to be me. Hard Man! Hard Man!! Ogoowinner, I cried straight 4 days. This isn't my first heartbreak but the most painful one cos I gave that person 4 years of love and it just ended like its nothing. It has even affected my steemit activeness.
I know its gonna be fine. Just the perfect post I need right now
Sorry about how you feel @yungchief. It hurts. I've been there before. Don't sink with the boat. Find some strength and swim back to the shores.
Shit! We'll chat on whatsapp later today. That's so sad Mehn.
This is a funny reminder @ogoowinner. I have experienced both types of cries. For myself and for others. And i realised some years later how unnecessary they were. If only we knew better. We were just consumed in the moments. Like you stated, some things have to go for better things to come.
True. I'm just remembering a lot of things and laughing so hard. Lol!