THE SIMPLE BUT BITTER TRUTH ABOUT HUMANS

Humans are imperfect,men and women,and there is nothing like a perfect person,perfection comes when two imperfect agree to acept their flaws an live with it.

However,there are people out there that are responsible by societal standard,but sadly,there are very few.
It will be foolishness for anyone to walk into a serious relationship/mariage with the idea of reforming or changing the other person,trust me,adults hardly change,they only shift grounds an compromise their flaws when they can't afford to lose the other half.

Often times people tend to leave each other because of character defect an while this is perfectly ok,i want everyone reading this to know that every human has one or two terrible character that would want to make you run an a sweet nature that can make you fall deeply in love.

He/she may not drink or smoke but might be promiscious an a philanderer

He/she may be sweet,caring,kind hearted an gentle but lazy,laid back an unambitious.

He/she may be inteligent,romantic an caring but very boring an nagging

The list goes on an on

However,everyone has what is term a deal breaker,some can tolerate a cheat but he/she must be a provider,some can tolerate physical abuse but he/she must be caring an loving with a good makeup sex,some can tolerate laziness but he/she must be physically appealing with a good dress sence an polish english to go with.the list goes on an on.

The wisdom in all this is to find a healthy balance as no one is perfect, it is advisable to lnvolve with someone whose default is something you can endure,manage or live with, don't go tolerating things that will turn you into emotional wreck or send you to your early grave.
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