Get out from your Comfort zone!!

 

 
"I was looking for a new image of the world that would give meaning to our greyness and be worth all the beauty that was lost, saving it ... - A new face of the world." Italo Calvino 

The difficult loves.   Wander, wander, get lost, negative verbs?

  I do not think so. 

 They all have one thing in common, an unknown quantity of chanches. 

  One big chance.  

As the modern ones would say, they are verbs that leave the "Comfort Zone" 

 But what are we talking about, what does the "Comfort Zone" consist of and where is it located? 

 This area of ​​comfort is a place we are used to and created by us, but it is not necessarily a physical place, and often it is a state of mind! 

 A mental condition where a person settles on contexts, situations and mental schemes for him / her now used and known. 

 This creates a sense of security and control that is not useful for the full development of one's potential.

  Because an important factor is missing, exploration!  

The discovery, the novelty and all that lies beyond the walls of our mental garden.  The risk that does not move from this comforting area is to never really be realized, continuing to repeat only reassuring actions without ever taking the risk of ... risk! 

 Why risk is to look for new paths, never traveled and it's true, potentially unsafe!

  "Not all those who wander are lost" J.r: r Tolkien

 In short, leaving the comfort zone poses the risk of "getting in trouble" but if this expression is positive from time to time?  If getting in trouble got the best out of us? our resources remained dormant under layers of habits? 

 
The comfort zone is likely to be a trap, a prison in which we put ourselves alone and of which we build the brick walls by brick, how?

  Never try new ways, never changing opinion, path, never questioning us, never making hazardous choices, not daring, not moving from what is familiar, not breaking the patterns, the barriers ...  

Not moving from the comfort zone involves serious long-term dangers, boredom, sadness. 

 The regret of never having discovered what could really be done.  

That worm in the head that says "But if I had tried who knows ..." 

 If I had changed jobs, if I had given up this story that does not give me anything more, I had left for Berlin, if I had done what scared me .. 

 Coming out of the comfort zone is a moment of growth and transformation and also an opportunity to get to know yourself and understand what you really want.  

Get out of it is the first step to move forward, out of the comfort zone is where dreams can develop and sometimes just a step, a foot out of the circle ...  

Get lost to find yourself. 

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