Marriage-I do or Do I?

Marriage is an important decision in our life.

Sometimes a constant pressure from society including your parents traps you in into helpless situation where you landed up getting married against your wish.

I want to question that marriage is required on the ground of our compromise for our whole life just to make or please someone?

Answer may differ from person to person, but important question is why?

Why a single person cannot remain happy and why people looked them as if they are from different planet.

I think you need to thank them for not adding to the population and secondly leave those people as its their wish and their life.

I feel one should be in a relation when they feel the need instead of the pressure or other traditional norms of the society.

I strongly believe please dont do anything on the name of traditions.

Do what you want, make commitments when you are ready, analyse all the aspects from your angle.

Give chance to your self to love and to be loved.

You get your life for once, do anything with your wish, especially when you want to jump into the relation.

A relation is not made for one day, sometimes its for whole life.

So be the master of your own destiny, do and decide when you want, its you who have to carry the burden and responsibilty of the relation.

People will always push you for one or more things.I request everybody to stop thinking about those people who are judgemental.

I wish when people say I do then they should mean it from the bottom of their heart, instead of uttering that I do because of my parents.

Because in that case your I do will change into Do I?