Step forward.

in #relationship7 years ago

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Do not be coerced, for no reason or because you have no other choice. With the wrong person, you'll be forever begging for attention, time and interest. The right person will give you all this just because he loves you ...

There is nothing more unpleasant than pleading for a moment of attention and tenderness from the person for whom we should be the whole world.

It is extremely important to have someone by your side who is one hundred percent sure that it is what interests you most. Someone who will be for you true support and daily presence will light in you the desire to love, laugh and live. Very often in ordinary everyday life you can see if someone really cares about you and if it all makes sense. Feeling usually lies in ordinary moments, in gestures, hugs or smiles. You will notice them in simple conversations and questions. For though seemingly banal, it is still a very beautiful feeling to have someone who will be interested and ask you how your day is or whether you are okay. Simple gestures are so little, and most often have the power to change everything.

Do not be by force with anyone, by force and only because you think you do not have any better options at the moment. If you have to have a hopeless relationship and someone who is a zero support for you, better lean against the wall. If someone is not able to give you a moment of attention, commitment and time, are you a hell with him? How long will you beg for a gesture and endure the coolness that kills everything in you? Are you going to forever wait for someone to suddenly change completely for an unknown reason? There are situations when you have to say enough, go out and close the door behind you - no matter how difficult it was for you.

In the past I was surprised that many really great girls did not have a guy. Now I'm absolutely not surprised. They prefer to be alone (not to be confused with lonely), not because nobody wants them. No. They prefer to be alone because they know their value and do not want to spoil life with an asshole. They know that they deserve more.

Actually, women do not give up without a reason. Most often they stop fighting because they feel underestimated and tired of the fact that someone who was to be their whole world could not offer them even a small part of their time and a little attention ...

So do not be forced into someone for no reason or because you have no other choice. You can not beg for gesture, feelings and love. Sometimes it's worth closing one chapter and trying to take a step forward. Perhaps on the other side of the door there is someone who sees everything that is beautiful in You. Never forget that:

No matter how hard you try to be "perfect" - you will not be enough for the wrong people. No matter how bad you are, you'll just be perfect for the right people.

And let's not forget that it works both ways.

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