Would you marry a girl who slept with guys before real story invited to judge me.
Last year, I met a girl from matrimony website. And we had this conversation:
(Leaving unnecessary detail, coming to that part of conversation)
She: Do you have any girlfriend Rana?
Me: No, not right now. But I have had girlfriend(s) before.
She: Ahhaa! I had a boyfriend too. We had 7 years of relationship.
Me: You don’t have to tell me all these things.
She: No, I want you to know that we were “so close”. I don’t want to hide anything before marriage.
Me: That’s great, now I don’t have to teach you how to love me after marriage. But why didn’t you marry that guy?
She: He left me for other girl.
Me: Hmm, that is sad.
(After few minutes, I had to ask this. So, I asked)
Me: Will you please answer me honestly?
She: Yeah sure!
Me: Let’s say we are engaged but what if your boyfriend feels sorry for his act and comes back to you. What will you do? Will you go back to him?
She: (She gave a thought and said) I don’t know Rana. May be! I will. I still do love him.
Me: Then there is no point in marrying me. You will destroy many lives because of your confusion.
There were mild discussions. And I called off that marriage proposal.
What I believe, is that relationship should be build on trust, it doesn’t matter what you did in the past, but it does matter what you do in the present.
No one can change their past, so there is no point of judging someone because of it. But it is important what effort you apply to make your present beautiful.
Comment section is open for judging me. Good luck guys.
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You can't change past and people should move on, but she said she still loves him and may be going back to him. That is a breaking point and good reason to end up engagement.
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STOPHmm. Past should be left where it belongs. Though it doesn't matter how many guys have she slept with before but yeah if she says that she will go back to someone who left her once, she needs some lessons on self respect and dignity. Women these days believe in such a wrong definition of love !!