4 DATING MISTAKES YOU SHOULD NEVER COMMIT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP |Relationship Goals|

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Everyone makes mistakes. Some are serious, others embarrassing and some…well a little bit of both. But no matter how silly, inappropriate or just plain weird your mistakes are; you can learn from them. What's important is making sure they don't happen again. When it comes to dating, there are some pretty common mistakes that people make. Here I'll tell you about the most common dating mistakes you should not commit in your relationship.

1. Not Being Honest About Your Intentions

When you go on a date, you're hoping to learn more about the person and see if they're someone with whom you'd like to develop a romantic relationship. Some people don't tell the truth about their intentions because they are afraid that the other person will find out. It's best to be upfront and honest from the start so that there are no misunderstandings later on, and both parties benefit from knowing the truth.

2. Overreacting

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Overreacting to situations is one of the most common dating blunders. When you overreact to a situation, you are also demonstrating to the other person that you lack emotional control. This immediately makes you appear unbalanced and out of control (in a bad way). Instead, concentrate on maintaining emotional control, remaining calm, and making rational decisions.

3. Lying About Who You Are And What You Want

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You may be tempted to lie about who you are and what you want, whether you've had a bad experience or not. Perhaps you don't believe you're attractive, wealthy, or otherwise suitable for the person you like. Perhaps the person who likes you is attractive, wealthy, and everything else you want in a partner, but he or she isn't what you're looking for.
If this is the case, be honest with yourself and try to accept that, while someone may be attractive and wealthy, they may not be a good match for you.

4. Still Being Friends With An Ex

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When it comes to dating, the worst mistake you can make is allowing someone else to control your life. There are a variety of reasons why people maintain friendships with their ex-partners. Some people believe it is the "right" thing to do, while others simply do not have the emotional capacity to end a friendship.
The truth is that just because your ex is nice doesn't mean you belong together. Someone who has hurt you in the past does not guarantee that they will treat you better in the future. It simply means they know how to manipulate you and what buttons to push.

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Not all people are lucky when it comes to love and dating. They will endure heartbreaks, failed relationships, and bad dates just like you. That is why we need to equip ourselves with the best knowledge possible to make our lives better and not as miserable as it was before.

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 3 years ago 

Thank you for sharing with us and teaching us on how we can maintain our relationship with people. As I say always I love your content. Steem on friend

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Thanks so much @juzkid.
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 3 years ago 

You are welcome.

 3 years ago 

Thanks for sharing bro, these are very true and not avoiding them can mar your relationship 😊.

Definitely right pal.
Thanks for checking this out.

 3 years ago 

We are always not honest with ourselves and we tend to carry such dishonesty into relationship which in the long run comes back to ruin everything we've built together.
I believe the points you raised serves as some antidotes to fast-dying relationships.
Thanks for sharing snr!!!

You're most welcome @ghanaba

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