RE: Contest | 25-Word Comment - Monkey Business | Niche
If it comes to position and skill, I would like to tell you some of my life experiences but in my own way. And I hope you like my method because without it I can't tell you my skills clearly.
Listen! I am a student of 8th class. My mother is sick and suddenly the responsibility of the house has come on me now I am learning to cook so that my mother does not have any kind of tension. Before going to school in the morning, i make everyone have breakfast and clean the house. And after coming back from school to rest for a while and then prepare dinner. Completing home and studies together is a very difficult task for me. Which I have tried to complete in a good way.
Listen! I have studied till 12th grade now it is difficult for me to manage college and home. Now I am not doing BA regular but private.
Listen! Now my elder brother is married. I have two elder brothers and I am their younger sister, but now I am preparing for my brother's marriage by fulfilling all the responsibilities of being their elder sister.
Listen! Now I am getting married. In which my aunt has supported me by becoming my mother and takes care of me a lot.
Listen! Now I am a daughter, sister, wife as well as a mother. Now, along with household responsibilities, I am also taking care of a child and his education and training.
Listen! I am a housewife. I don't do any job but I have 24 hours duty at home.
Sewing clothes, cooking, washing dishes, cleaning, washing clothes, I am an expert in all these things. I try to remove all the problems of myself and my family with my intellect and consciousness and I am quite successful in this.
Did you like my skills and my talent?
Thanks @wakeupkitty for this opportunity.
I am inviting the following friends to the contest: @mehwish-almas @aminasafdar, @abdullhahsafdar
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We left the idea that being a housewife isn't a job years ago. Everything you mention are full time jobs:
Housekeeper
Babysitter
Nanny
Cook
Dishwasher
Cleaner/clening lady
Teacher
Nurse
Manager
And and and.. and let's not forget being a wife, the the therapist/listening ear, the one who provides in free sex where many men pay for.. could any man afford a wife if he had to pay for all those jobs she's doing? I don't think so.
It would be good if you don't look down on yourself by saying: I don't have a job since you have and your job takes more than 24 hours since you always have to be present if someone calls. You cannot say: Sorry, it's 6 pm I am finished no longer disturb me I am free, I go out with my friends I worked long enough.
It is clear you can manage, you are a manager, secretary, assistant and wedding planner, an allrounder but what I like to know is where your heart lies, what is it you are good at and want for you. Can you sing, dance, iceskate, write stories, play music, What is it in you that you are good at since all those things you do you are forced into and weren't your first choice
P.s. I started to cook at the age of 7 too, did all the groceries, took care of my brother and at the age of the 12 I did the bookkeeping of a business and yes I am good at it but this is for sure not my niche.
I've thought a lot about what my heart is in and I'm surprised that I don't know what my heart wants.
The burden of responsibilities is huge. Yes, but in all of them I know for sure that the happiness and satisfaction on their faces keeps me calm.
If I tell you about a few years back, I used to love applying henna, singing, dancing, I was very fond of wearing sarees and I fulfilled this love.
Moreover, now there is no passion for anything.
But last fun thing (I love to eat) 😂🤭.
And while leaving I would just like to say that you are a multi-talented woman. And I know so much about you that you have lived a life of struggle. I get great vibes from you.
Is it possible for you to start with henna again? This is art, also if you do not only use stencils. You can brighten up our Art & Artists community. Who knows who you inspire or how others can inspire you? We can draw and photograph together and search for that niche. What do you think?
It's hard to make room between responsibilities. You can also sing like @olivia08 did. It's worth trying and children love singing and listening to stories, you can write your own.
This is one of my niches 👇 I still like reading my stories. 🤭
Link https://steemit.com/hive-169911/@wakeupkitty.pal/hot-dip-a-tale - look at the great reward!
Why not, there is no value in passion. But with us this art is limited to weddings as our personal routine is so tough that it is impossible to find time for such favorite activities.
Wow, salute to your passion 🥰.
Writing stories for children is very difficult. This ability is very less in me🤫.
I believe taking care of the house is not something trivial. Everyone should be able to appreciate that. Women (wives and or mothers) who stay at home and do chores may not bring money into the house but they -with their love and sincerity- make the house like a palace, the problem is not everyone can appreciate that. Sometimes it is sad. It reminds me of my mother.
Despite our strict duty, when this label is put on women (what are you doing while staying at home), it is very painful.
In cold, heat, sun, shade, even in sickness, when a woman is not considered worthy of a little praise after doing her 24-hour duty, such a society definitely needs education.
In childhood, since we came from not a wealthy family, and my Mom needed to do some works outside to support our family financially, I and my siblings (1 brother and 1 sister), were taught to do the house chores. So I get the picture (even not a big one but I do) how it's like. I can see in your writing my sister for sure (even though she managed to get to a higher education and now has a good position in the city public hospital) and I can imagine my mother in it. Many women will will feel connected to this story.
Perhaps women's fight is the same as what they do to improve their situation. The vehicle of life continues to run like this from generation to generation.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
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Your research is very great, I also read the reviews of all the nominees. I really enjoyed reading it.