Questions To Ponder!
Good evening,
I hope you all had a great day, today!
Today I want us to quickly discuss questions that would help you in life, these questions, to a very large extent, determine what you would achieve in life; or how far you would excel in your chosen field of endeavours. If you can take these questions seriously, you can be successful in life. So, in a sense, your success in life would revolve around these questions. I would like us to consider these questions carefully. I just wish I could accommodate questions at the end of this post, or lecture.... Anyhow you may view it. But, since I can't directly take questions, I would really appreciate your comments.
The Questions
- WHO? : Who is a very important question to ask. You must deliberately ask the who-question. Ask "who" do I need to talk to to solve this problem? Who could I contact that would be of help in this situation? Who? Who? Who? Really, who is a very great question to ponder! Who can also be used to seek more information. Ask, who and who was involved in that? When you do, you would avoid unnecessary generalization that could cause you problems in your relationship with people.
- WHAT?: What is also a good question to consider. When you ask what? You get clarification. The whole idea is open to you. When creatively asked, what is a question that could save you from unnecessary stress or drama for instance, someone said something you are not clear about, instead of supposing or speculating, you could just make a little clarification by asking "what" does it mean? When you asked what, you set the tone for understanding of a particular concept or matter at hand.
What is, indeed, a good question to ponder.
On a Final Note, you save yourself a whole lot of trouble when you are skillful in asking the who- or what- questions.
Let's stop here to avoid a post that's too lengthy!
Thanks for reading this article: I hope you start asking the right questions in your relationships with people.