Why is it hard for men to understand women?

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failure to understand this woman is usually directly proportional to the length of time to establish a relationship, because over time, gradually, there was an adjustment of both.

Women like to take their own conclusions

Just because he heard a long sigh, the woman concluded that everything he did because he was forced to please him and he felt a burden on him.

More extreme, sometimes without saying goodbye, a woman suddenly disappears and is difficult to contact, and unilaterally breaks the relationship just because she hears or sees an event that she deems a betrayal or thinks she is not loved anymore.

Women Don't Like to Light

Because you feel uncomfortable or feel that your lover should already know what you want, there is often a misunderstanding between the two.

Codes or signs from a woman who wants something to do her lover is often misread because men tend to be lazy to think that is meticulous and prefer if the desire is clearly conveyed.

Women Can't Be Treated Equally

Instead of wanting to be able to understand women, often men ask friends who already have a lover how to treat a good woman so that there is no more misunderstanding between her and her lover, but in fact, the advice given by her friend is not necessarily suitable for women, because the woman is unique.

In contrast to spoiled women, for independent women, excessive attention and gombalan that is considered effective to conquer the heart, it is not necessarily able to melt his heart sometimes even make him feel illfill and then run away.

Time and Adjustment

As I explained above, misunderstandings that occur between men and women will decrease as time goes by and often meet and communicate. Not only has the man been able to read the sign of the woman, but the woman has been bolder and willing to be honest about what she wants.

Nonetheless, the lack of misunderstanding between the two does not guarantee a lasting relationship, because it will make the relationship monotonous and boring, so my advice is for women to remain unique creatures who occasionally cringe so that relationships keep running and not boring.