Do you have what it takes to be good?

Before I proceed to the main topic, I'll like to tell you a brief story about someone who is very close to bit can't disclose due to some reasons.
Hope you dont mind?

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This is how it goes; there's this young man, 'A youth' actually, he use to be very religious, he worships his God like he should and try as much as possible not to commit any sin, and when he does he seeks for forgiveness BA's much as he can... He's a great example of a great youth.

But there's a problem, he use to be too confident about himself, and he has this feeling and also always tells it to everyone that comes his way that he can never marry more than one wife.

Meanwhile he has the qualities of a man that can handle enough woman, hope you understand what I mean... He's a (TDH) Tall dark and handsome like the ladies call him, he's quite rich and comfortable, very hardworking and hell never leave his God for something else.

Tell me! Who wouldn't want a man like that, thus he's respectful, proud and responsible.

But something happened before he became born again which I haven't told you, he mistakenly impregnated a lady due to the influence of his friends, though he had been a disciplined person even when he wasn't born again,'but shit happens' like you know.

In one sentence, he already has a baby of two years old and his fiancee knew about it and she was ok with it, in fact almost any lady will say yes if he proposed to them... Trust me I know this man.

But the issue is, his fiancee's family does not want their daughter to marry him, because of his pride and the state where he comes from. They feel people from his region are stingy and dont take good care of their wife's. I can't say to that though they may probably have another hidden reason why they don't want the marriage to be a progress which they decided not to disclose, who knows?!

Some how the parent partially agreed and the marriage commenced.

This man who claims to be holy, went on a trip after his honey moon, and he met another lady, she happened/appeared to be a friend at first and he didn't have no intention of proceeding to go beyond friendship.

She was always there for him when he needed a lady to do some chores for him, they pray together sometimes, he even told his wife about the lady and he told the lady about his wife, how loving and caring she is too...

Sometimes when his wife comes to visit she meets this beautiful lady in his room and she was ok with it because she knows how strict and disciplined her husband is, she felt nothing could ever pop up. And it didn't.

He went back home after his assignment there, the lady liked him and he knew but didn't make her notice, he seem to like her too but nothing could be done, he already has a wife sobhe kept being neutral.

They parted ways and he left for home.

Some weeks later his boss sent him back to the place to carry out and finalize an assignment which may take three days to execute.

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He told the lady he was coming and she got prepared for him, this time she didn't just plan to be nice, she wanted to have him...

A lady can be very desperate when she wants to be.

She acted as she used to and made him food on arrival.

He was equally excited to see her, she spent the night at his place, they prayed together played together, his wife even spoke to her on phone and told her to make sure nothing goes wrong with her husband, they even cracked jokes on phone...

Remember I said they spent the night together

That was the first night and time actually she slept in his room and she slept first in her night gown after this man as slept she woke up and pulled off her gown remaining stack naked she came on him and he couldn't resist because deep in hin he also wanted too...

Things happened between them and that same thing that happened, continued to happen for the three days.

She got pregnant at the same time his wife got pregnant.

For a man as holy as he use to claim, he preaches to people and all of those people use to here him when he says he will never fornicate, let alone marrying more than one wife, he curse those who do it for you to know how bad he claims to hate it.

Nothing could be done, she had to give birth to the baby, which she did, he moved away from that region, pleaded to his wife, and his submissive wife still accepted his plea based on one or two things...

Who knows?, Family matter...

Now has three babies from three different mothers and he used to boast never to marry more than a wife, fornicate or indulge in such things... How will he explain this to people...

Well, he feels he owes no one explanation so he carried on with his life, he's wife was very understanding so he had no problem from her side but the family caused him a big mess but somehow he coped...

He's proud, I'm sure you remember I said so.

Finally he had a clash with this his be loving wife, only god knows what the issue was about, she's the type that do not get upset easily but this time she did and he could not settle the misunderstanding based on the fact that he didnt admit he was wrong and did not plead instead he complicated matters.

So the wife went to her family complained to her eldest sister and that's where the real problem began.

The sister never liked this man right from the very start, she felt he was a pretender, so she gathered enough point to use against him in the face of her family... They packed out the wife's load and it remained just him and him alone...

Now he was a loaner, nobody seemed to believe anything he says again all the kids were with their mothers, his wife that left him already had two kids for him, plus the two other external kids, he felt stupid but his disciplinarian trait didnt allow him relent.

He started up another new life, made new religious friends, became even more hard working after he moved to another region, built a mighty mansion and the only thing he needed was a wife which he cannot boast of.

He consulted some elders and reasonable friends and they advice him to marry another wife... At first he disagreed but with time he saw a lady whom he admired she was too beautiful. Someone advised her to marry him and so he did...

No Woman is perfect or close to perfection.
This is what he doesn't know, he compares people which is very bad.

This is new wife likes to go out to party, night parties, she join different women clubs and several societies.

He couldn't cope with her, so he broke up with her after two kids not caring about what anybody will say, he discovered she wasn't his wife, she was too worldly to abide by his rules...

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What do you think he did again at that tender age of 42?
He went back to beg his old wife and struggled a lot before getting her back...

After how many years...

Now count for yourself how many wifes and kids he later had despite boasting in his early age and claiming to be a saint and perfectionist...

Life is not what you think it is, yes you can predict things and it comes to past but it may not always be as you think it will...

You may plan to be a footballer and work towards it but if it won't be it won't. Thats life for you...

So now my question goes this way...

Doyou think you have what it takes to be good?

Drop your comment below and give reasons

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