Success is thinking positively .
A instructor for a course distributed balloons on each trainee and asked each of them to inflate a balloon and fasten it .. Each person started inflating and tying their balloon .. Then he gathered the trainees in circular and limited Square and said: I have a bunch of awards and I will start from now counting for just one minute and after the minute passes Each one has his balloon will take an award ..!
time began and everyone attacked each other to blow the other balloon until the time is over ..the instructor then looked at everyone and found only one keeping his balloon then said: I did not ask anyone to blow the other balloon .. if everyone just stopped without taking a negative decision against the other , everyone would have won prizes .. but negative thinking overwhelmed everyone .. !!
Previous experience reflects the thinking of a lot of people who believe that their success passes through the other .. and that It is hard to be achieved by effort or little thinking or looking at things in a positive way .. and that the picture does only accommodate only one successful .. This successful has to be me and not to be you .. or as you do also think , it has to be you and not me .. therefore each of us to succeed has to destroy the other .. .. and destroy it by force or deception or negativity .. .. because the competition can only bear as you think .. or, as the scene is read in the competition .. despite the fact that the conditions do not give the right for the vanquished to get out of the ring .. because it is not only one that is going to win, but possibly more than one .. ..!
When we were children in the classroom and yet still these behaviors exist .. is the students noise when the teacher asks a question and wants its answer .. you will find chaos cropped up in the classroom and the word "Me .. Me" .. Which is said by those who want to answer the question . . continuous screaming as every student wants to be the one who answers the question .. However , with the overlapping voices , the rights of those who should answer are lost .. and perhaps there is usually a student or two in the class that are quite and they know the correct answer, however do not fall in the high ego clash .. the result tenses the teacher and screams asking students to sit down and calm when asking to answer .. otherwise punishing those who say Me .. a teacher says she used to deprive each student screaming to answer and saying Me .. a punishment harsh for those who want to be is in the picture only and not the others .. from this story begins the story of ego .. and self-love and negativity in reaching what we want .. from this story begins the story of every person who is looking only for his interest by higher sound .. or by overtaking another person or taking his right .. and It is an exciting beginning for the manufacturing of a child that does only have what he is going to achieve or looking for by jumping on the other and Confiscating what he has .. and he might not get it .. because the method he followed was also wrong ..!
The problem of negative behavior that pushes to the other destruction in search of self is the lack of the pacific awareness .. by indulging in subconscious as a mature sense of that moment in which the positive momentum of the clean success vanish .. which fits for others .. not narrows them .. as well as attempting to access the the easy way , even if it was not your way or belongs to you .. or you are allowed to pass through it .. without a quiet thinking that leads you up to what you want ..!
Earth is wide and can accommodate all people , this is the norm .. It is possible to run on it for everyone , but who wins is the one running forward and not looking back .. does not stop to hinder the other or put difficulties in their way .. everyone can run but only the industrious can win .. and the positive in his thinking .. and who turns his idea into a special work .. " Nehru" says ,
“ it is not for us to ignore the means when we think of goals ”
.. Finally,
“ the human being is still the only object that his greatness lies in his thinking ”
as "Pascal" said .. because thinking alone is what leads to success I mean positive thinking .. !!
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