When Your husband makes a mistake!!!

When your husband makes a mistake, and it hurts you very, crying, if it can relieve you.
Do not force yourself to look tough, because you are just a human being who also has a sense of disappointment, anger and right to protest over the attitude of your husband.
Then let the tears fall for your heart's relief.

However ...

Your innocence at that moment as a woman, do not let your memory go away, that even in sadness, you have to remember Alloh Ta'ala.

You are angry, you are disappointed with your husband, but do not you keep it for too long so that Alloh Ta'ala judges you as a vengeful and angry wife.
Imagine when you got the nickname from humans, how much you object to you. Especially if Alloh Ta'ala who gave it for you because there is no patience from your heart. So indeed if you can not stop your tears, but control your heart to immediately forgive him.

Subhan Allah...
How beautiful you are when forgiving.
Even Alloh Ta'ala-ridho to you.
Alloh Ta'ala is proud of you, his patient and vast servant of his heart.
Alloh Ta'ala is proud of his decorated servant with noble traits.

Your husband will not be by your side forever.
Hopefully when your husband carries a stretcher your later, your husband will always remember you as a wife who is so very understanding, forgiving, and patient about him. Hopefully...