Finding my biological father..

in #family9 years ago

So yesterday I decided to go to my old Church I used to attend many years back. Anyways I go there, then head home. It seems like nothing is going the way it was supposed to( my plans for the afternoon didn't work out), up until that evening. I get a random Facebook message asking if I was so and so, and if my mom was so and so. It turned out after 26 years of not knowing whom my biological father was, and doing numerous searches non stop over the years, with no trace of ever finding him, I may of finally found out my other half of myself. Backstory so my mom, and dad met at a bar back in 1990 or 1991 not sure exactly when since I'm 26 born in 1991. Anyways it was a one night stand kinda deal, where alcohol was involved. Basically he never knew she was pregnant, and before he could find out he left with some friends, never to be seen again. I never knew any last names, and the memories from that event were vague in my mom's mind. I've Prayed over the years, and other people did, and it seems as though God has finally answered my prayers. A few months back at Church I got Prayer for this, and I believe they said that I would meet my father by the end of this year, and we are basically the end of the year. This whole year has been full of downs, but now it seems as though everything is starting to look up. Tomorrow my potential father, and his son are all going to go, as well as myself to order a DNA test online, and then we just wait for it to come through the mail. If I finally found my dad, i'll be so happy i'll probably cry. It's been a long time just wondering whom he might be, not knowing what he looks like, not knowing that he even had a child, and never knowing one another ever. If anyone wants to share any similar stories feel free to. Might I add if he isn't my father, he knows the bar my mother and dad met at, and knows people she was around at that time. I went to meet his son and him yesterday, and they're eager to know. He is already calling himself my dad, which melts my heart, but at the same time worries me because I've been through this before. I also found another man potentially my biological father before, and we still haven't done a test due to his actions. Long story short I am super happy, and I will finally be able to say I love you dad, and have a relationship with my earthly father, and as well as a potential brother. If you would like to know more about how I was able to even get connected with his son regarding finding my father, feel free to ask otherwise I thank God for he has answered my Prayers, and for another amazing woman who is another reason as to this even being possible especially with zero leads to a last name, only a potential number of first names.

Thanks for reading, and God Bless you all.

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