To me it sounds like you have made it to the next level.

At some point in my life I remember making the same changes and realizing that some things didn't need to be done ASAP, or maybe not at all.

There's no shame in doing what makes you happy, unless your kids are going to bed hungry.

If your dependents (that includes animals and I would argue indoor plants) need something then you have some responsibilities, otherwise, It's your life.