Can We Look At Things This Way...?
She shares household responsibilties with me (her husband), she feels cheated and stupid to cook, wash, clean, etc whilst l do not do same. She comes home from work, go straight to the kitchen and there's no food but l would be home and so she also deem it inappropriate to cook for us because a "sensible" person should've thought it wise that we would get hungry. She cooks when she feels hungry not because l her husband has to eat cos she thinks l obvioysly have two hands and ten fingers...of course...I do.!!!!!! She washes and clean when and how she pleases simply because everyone wears their own clothes and the house isn't for one person alone.Unless maybe we want to divide or share spaces between ourselves.
Amidst all these we're raising children who we expect to take care of their future homes someday. So if she has a male child what lesson is she teaching or giving him? How best is she raising him for a better future? If someone hadn't raised their child well, or if someone hadn't learn home training and management would we have gotten cooks and cleaners for employment? If all these people we seek to employ to cook in our homes had focused on getting MPhils, Doctrates, MBAs, etc alone who would ladies have employed to cook for their husbands?
My Take;
Certainly it will be contradictive to know that the equal rights shes being fighting for with me in our home would breed another set of unequipped and untrained future spouces who would expect their partners to share house chores with.Do you agree or Disagree?
Lets see how sensible and smart some ladies are being. She wants me her husband(someone's son) to wash, cook, clean, etc but how is she raising her own son to do these for someone's daughter?
I think she's the best person to tell her son to wash cause he will never respect the house help like her. So she being the mother won't clean and ask her to, so when he gets married how will he clean for his wife....? Do we now see how ridiculous some ladies or wives are becoming?
They shouldn't train their daughters to wash panties but who should train his son to clean?......
Gradually we are building a generation which is already on the verge of a serious collapse.
This is a practical digest to share with all steemians especially ladies here..I hope this wont hurt anyone in anyway.What do you also make of these thoughts of mine.I just want to be realistic on certain seemingly challenging issues,not because l am a man. Lets begin talking and hear your take on this too.
Hmmm, this is why most marriages are breaking, the moment we began to walk away from God's will.. these things are bound to happen if we refuse to revisit our root. Good work @mcsamm
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i am happy to see you passed by...thanks for your words @praxantp
I hope your good lady for you. Prior to this I would like to thank for his experience and referrals from your article. I will be more careful in choosing my future mate for life, so that's not the case the gap in household. I hope this is also good for you @mcsamm
hahaha...you surely need to be circumspect about you mate..ladies of our time are complicated but l think its where l am coming from..how is the situation from your end?
I would actually pick a good woman with a thorough analysis, I would choose it based on the seeds, and weights. Everyday behavior is the most important ...
I am good, how about your news lately @mcsamm ?
its all good here...i pray that you get connected to the right person bro
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very nice story dear @mcsamm
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Our women re too difficult to understand but we go manage them like that
Like that????
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The bible clearly explains that women should be submissive to their husbands.
Also men are the heads of the families as the bible indicate.
Women should understand this phenomenon.
The man can volunteer in the household chores to help the woman
in times of need. So women shouldn't tag men with household chores
as men responsibility.
Hahahahhah....thats from the bliblical view...some men are wicked and cruel sometimes..not helpful at all...lets be advised too
Education starts with family. I'm guessing that all parents should show a good example by completing house chores divided amongst each other? Surely, we cannot leave it all to a single person. Relationship doesn't work that way. It is about helping each other out.
Charity they say begins at home but should ceratinly not end there