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hello, good evening friends of the team italygame community, how are you all, I hope you are all in good health, and have fun days, and on this occasion tonight I want to discuss, It's amazing how we can be surrounded by friends -friends but still feel distant from them. There are many reasons for this, such as pain, trauma, and heartbreak. I recently learned that loneliness can also cause these feelings. Some people believe that having lots of friends reduces loneliness, but that's not always the case. we can be with other people and still feel alone, especially when they can't understand what we're going through and you're not ready to explain it to anyone.

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we don't have to be around other people to avoid feeling lonely,? Loneliness is not only a physical problem, but also a mental problem. Some people don't have friends but don't feel alone. In today's world of social media and online connections, it's important to recognize whether you feel alone or not. Loneliness is a state of mind that can be influenced by changes in environment, friends, or thought patterns.

Sometimes it's not anyone else's fault that we're alone

In some societies, people tend to distance themselves from individuals who are considered different or unique. This is because attention is often unwelcome when given to someone for the wrong reasons. As a result, those who have qualities that attract attention for the wrong reasons may feel lonely. However, it should be noted that some people experience loneliness as a result of their own actions. They want change but don't want to engage with the people around them. On the other hand, some individuals simply have an “I don't care” attitude, which ultimately leads to feelings of emptiness.

Another form of loneliness is when we don't want to understand others and you don't want others to understand you. You don't create any connection with anyone, which makes you feel lonely. This is very common in our world today, where there are so many lonely people who are not only lonely but also empty. They are people who don't care and don't want others to understand them. They crave love and connection and want others to feel safe around them. However, the bitter truth is, how can we get what we don't give? How can we connect with anyone if we are not ready to connect with anyone?

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Don't get lost

Some of us get lost in our problems and thoughts. We feel the need to change all at once, and we start to believe that no one understands us, and we don't want to understand anyone else either. This is simply the result of thinking too much. Some of us think we're not good enough for anyone, while others think that no one really deserves us, which leads to loneliness. This struggle is not real; it's just a mental problem that can be solved if we really want to be found. The easiest way to do this is to get out of our heads, go outside, and connect with others. When we think and talk less with other people, it is easier to free our minds and avoid loneliness, that's my discussion tonight, I hope it's useful and can entertain all my friends, thank you, greetings.

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Good evening friends! It's so true that loneliness is not always about the physical presence of others but more about the mental state we are in. Sometimes, we can be surrounded by people and still feel distant if they don’t truly understand us or if we’re not ready to share what’s on our minds. Recognizing this is the first step to overcoming that feeling. Thank you for this deep and thoughtful discussion!"

You're welcome, thank you for your time, those who are willing to read my article, I hope it's useful and can entertain other friends, thank you, I hope you have a nice day, greetings

Thanks verimuch team italygame

Hola @masril

  • Veo que hast traido un tema muy sensible que trastoca suceptibilidades; la soledad no es una buena compañía; las imagenes empleadas estan muy acordes a tu escrito.
  • Siento que vincular es una de las esencias de supervivencia del ser humano, pero muchas veces cuesta tanto; en lo particular siempre me ha costado mucho vincular con las personas.
  • Me gusta que filosofes con un tema social tan oportuno; actualmente las personas se estan aislando mucho producto de la tecnologia.
    puedes mejorar usando tus propias imagenes; recuerdo que hace algunos años te destacabas por hacer macrofotografia.
  • ¿tienes luchas con el tema de vincular con otras personas?

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If you comment try to write a text and write in the way you talk to a friend. If you do this what you say and ask looks more friendly then answering one question after the next.
The picture you used makes me feel uncomfortable because of the face of the woman but this is personal. I wonder about the source but also what you mean by showing it. Is it to say hi or?
If I ignore what I mentioned above your comment is good. Thanks for joining we-write
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La estructura de los comentarios la hice siguiendo el patrón que la tarea establecía y no me quise salir de los parámetros para que los evaluadores no pensaran que no cumplía las reglas.

La imagen que usé es una actriz de Hollywood muy famosa de la serie Friends Jenifer Aniston
La extraje de mis stickers de WhatsApp y es asociada a vincular, saludar, ser amistosa.
Conozco a @masril desde hace varios años, así que no creo que se vaya a ofender. Solo le sugerí que use sus fotos de macrofotografia para sus post que realmente son Muy buenas.

Pd. Normalmente no comento siguiendo un patrón de preguntas y respuestas, pero ésta vez lo hice para seguir la consigna de la tarea.

Puedes responder de la forma en que estás acostumbrado y ver si las pautas para responder se pueden encontrar en lo que escribiste. Lo más probable es que, si estás acostumbrado a comentar, este sea el caso. Gracias por explicar lo de la imagen y, dado que mencionaste las fotos que solía hacer, entendí que la conocías. En lo que respecta a la imagen que compartiste, no estaba pensando en el hecho de que podría ser aterrador para el autor, pero en mi opinión, lo fue para mí.



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I wonder if you feel lonely or if there's another reason you wrote about this topic. Can it be you are one of those people who feel great alone, keep themselves busy, and don't feel lonely?

There's a huge difference between being alone and feeling lonely. I can't say I miss being surrounded by people they are too noisy and it makes me feel uncomfortable. If social media or better the use of computers and phones increased the loneliness I can't tell. I intend to believe that talking about it also made the feeling increase.

What we tend to forget is that loneliness is a feeling, an emotion, and therefore a mindset. If you are the entire day behind a screen I can't imagine you have no one to kill time with. If that is the case it means you do not engage, never comment, never say hi and it's better to play a board game offline or go outside and meet real people.

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