Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 57: What gender do you prefer your child to be?

Hi I am Maryam Nadeem from Lahore #pakistan. Come once again to share my best entry with you guys. A very good contest has been organized in which we will tell which of our children we can improve and which children are placed in which place. So lets start.

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Boy or girl child, which do you think is more expensive to train? Give your reasons

This question has been asked in a very beautiful way that it is very important to train one of them, so I have become a mother of a daughter and a son and now a third beautiful newly daughter by the grace of Allah. So being a mother I know better how both of them are treated and in which way which of them is trained well.

So the answer to my question will be that we should do the training of the boy better because the training of the sons is very important and the son should be taught to respect the woman first because today Many people in the society spoil the honor of women, therefore the training of the boy should be kept first and the training of the daughter should also be done in such a way that the daughter also respects her elders and respects her parents.

If you were to be a parent today, which gender do you prefer to have as your children? Give us your reasons

Every parent wishes to be the parent of both a son and a daughter, but first of all it involves the interest of Allah Almighty. Allah Almighty blesses everyone with sons and daughters. I have seen many people who have sons in their house but Allah has not blessed them with a daughter, but I have also seen houses where there are daughters and Allah is not blessing them with a son due to the need of a son.

In today's society, a son is more preferred to have a son in his house and a daughter is considered a burden because it is said that after raising a daughter, the daughter is sent away, so our Pass beta should be mandatory so that he can be the support in oldage. If I tell my story, I want both of them very much and Allah Almighty has blessed me with both. After that, Allah Almighty gave me a son and Allah Almighty gave me another daughter. Because it is said that to whom Allah is pleased, He gives a beautiful daughter from His treasure.

During adolescence, which gender shows tendencies to go out of control? Why

By the way, it is said that it is according to the training of the parents. In terms of how parents train their children, the child's ability to control becomes more in youth. During adolescence, it becomes very difficult to control a boy because it is a sex that is very difficult to control. will show but if he is trained in a very strange way, he will surely annoy you in old age and in youth.

It has been seen that in youth girls also get out of control, but girls know how to manage their honor very well, that's why boys don't care about honor at all. He should be trained so that he can lead a better life for himself and not embarrass his parents at all.

What do you think about the statement; "what a boy can do, a girl can do better"?

According to my statement, I would like to say that if you train both of them well then both of them will live a good life. The boy will respect you all his life. A daughter should respect her sister and her mother, then she will respect a woman for the rest of her life. From the very beginning, a boy should always be taught to respect a woman.

So all I want to say is that both should be trained better and both should be taught to respect their parents and each other. Hope so you guys like it. I invite my friends to take part @arinaz08 @drhira @rumaisha.