Too high expectations make us lonely
Everyone formulates, with time and experience what it wants to own his partner.
But often it is these criteria, appear a way to sabotage the relationship, because some people just do not know what they want - they want everything.
Nature creates unique creations and one of them is a man (maybe). But even assuming that it was her creation, it should be noted that no one can be perfect.
Although all people know, not all realize it really expecting from the other person to have all the most wonderful qualities.
For example, be handsome, rich, sweet, strong, and so on, sometimes people choose even mutually exclusive combinations.
Therefore, perhaps it is best to stop the endless lists and criteria and just let the feeling with which we feel comfortable
Instead unobsessively so in any specific traits might be better if we met someone who we like, just to know whether we have the same expectations of the relationship and whether we have similar views on most important issues.
There are many relationships that have begun, although in the beginning one partner (and maybe even both) had prejudices against the other, but when it got to know a bit discovered that it's actually very impressed with his character.
"The only" hardly will look like as you imagine it (never seems so).
So be open to new and different and do not let minor imperfections can hinder your happiness.

