STRUGGLE IS REAL: IN A RELATIONSHIP

When two people start a new relationship together, we can say that this is forever. The first couple of months in a relationship will always be at ease and sugar-coated. Eventually after a few months the jealousy will kick in, the arguments will come out of nowhere and trust issues will surprisingly hit you. Struggle is gonna get real and that's when you get to see whether or not they are going to stick around and make it work.

Sometimes i don't like the idea of having a "long distance relationship". Waiting entails pain, sacrifices, resisting temptation and maintining the spark. It can make you lose your affection with each other

Every minute update becomes only "hi and hello" and "i have a work to do". "Good morning" video calls turned into occasional. And "i love you" is written so empty. It's really easy when your not far from each other, once there is an argument you cab easily go to where he/she is and hug him/her and it will be okay. We tend to create unnecessary emotions out of text messages. You feel so bothered on unanswered calls, unreplied messages or even painful, when he/she ignores you.

Fights and arguments are effective diet and budget plan but in a bad aspect. You can't eat, you can't sleep, you only fix your bed but can't fix what's inside your head. I understand that no relationship is all sunshine. But two people can share one umbrella and survive the storm together as they say. We all have bad days, but one thing is true, no cloud is so dark that the sun can't shine through. So just fight!. Love is all about two people loving each other despite the fact that there's gonna be a lot of adversities coming on your way. That's just it!!

It's never goodbye but see you soon. I loved you once. I love you still, always have and always will. Take care of yourself for me wherever you are. For now, let's work our way to the future until our path crosses once more.