The society of the envy (Original)

Many times I have found myself, along my years of life, people who spoke, on how well they feel, because accomplished your goals. 

That yes, this is the opinion exercised, because they are beside you, but then when they are with other people, the view is not the same, the truth does not feel happy, rather think that your achievements, are not deserved, and rather they deserve more than you, i.e. are people who are usually envious, who do not mind truly if you do well or badly. The truth are friendships false, people that nothing more seek your friendship, for their benefits for themselves, and that somehow, treat your hypocritical way, without any positive sentiment, which really show some consideration, toward your achievements and goals met.   

We must understand that, somehow, things do not always go do as we have planned, in most of the times your goals and dreams will be frustrated, by different circumstances of life, by which one must learn that it is part of life. The worst thing that one can do is to feel envious so you do not have, but in particular by what they have other, this leads me to recall a few words of Robert Kiyosaki, where he speaks of the envy of the poor to the rich, where everything is that the poor want to be like them, but not actually do anything, and it is not because, do not have opportunities, is because you do not have financial education. 

There lies the problem, which ends triggering, or better said, growing by a kind of social hatred, of the poor to the rich. 

These cultural processes have much to do with the education received in their homes, grow with the time being equal to our parents and we do not understand or better said we are not taught, that each one of us has different paths. Do not have to repeat the same patterns of our parents, rather they are a vehicle for the birth of future generations, therefore, we must not copy behavior. 

As the envy, I will give an example, how many times have we not heard to people with children, who complain of the rich, because they have more money than them. Possibly many times, this type of hatreds social, they finish copying our children, since they are from that grow, as a blank book, we are responsible for the behavior and ways of being of our children, as I always say, children are the image and likeness of their parents, their brains are like a sponge, they absorb all the knowledge that we offer you. 

Is there, when we think, due to our forms of upbringing, that if I did not achieve something, the other persons should not have it that way of thinking so selfish, can lead us to the long, to immerse ourselves from all points of views. In this way of seeing things, end up happening these attitudes that make us a bad person, we must understand that for those people achieve their successes, had to work constantly, to obtain the benefits of their efforts. 

 

Who has not heard of people, who say, we are 99%, and they are the 1%, it should not be so!

But we have not thought, for some time, that those people who are the 1%, have had to work very hard to be there, I am not saying that people do not protest against what they consider to be unjust, each person has the free will to do what he wants, but always this type of things, make me think, if it is fair or not fair.

We confuse equality with equity, we believe that we deserve the same, but we do nothing. We criticize those who are successful, while we live the excuses permanent. Usually we speak of equality, which means that i deserve the same, regardless of the effort. 

When really, we should talk about the equity, which in summary is, opportunities for all, and that each who deserves according to their effort, i.e. by our merits. That is what we should defend, and at the same time do not feel some kind of contempt, for those people who have more things that I. So let us, our selfishness to one side. 

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