A second chance: It's just life?
To be at the top, it can be somewhat counterproductive, because you start to think that everything is done, you trust that you will not fall from that “throne”, in which you think you are, but the reality is that, if you trust too much, you can end up passing bills. To reach the top, does not mean that there is nothing to be done, it is the sign that you must find new goals, that help you to keep, but above all things, to continue growing.
Now, many times it is inevitable, not to fall into those riddles that puts your life, where you think things are against you and do not understand why they happen. But the truth is, you are the one who has the answer, so you must find that you are doing wrong, or that it is necessary to rectify to get ahead. Because even though you can have a good strategy, the reality is that you will be presented with circumstances, which will make you have to change some things, in order to get the answers you need.
It is necessary, to establish priorities, to execute a work plan, that allows us as individuals to get ahead. If, really is not easy, but if you take your time and plan with calm, without hurry up, it is very possible that things, you are giving with the time. Sometimes we need the necessary patience, to find the right path that will lead you to achieve everything that you are passionate about.
In life, there are not only second chances, there are many more. The question is, in that you need to learn from your mistakes and correct it as far as possible, because nothing serves you, wrong a million times, If you have not learned from the lessons that life gives you, because if so, it would be inevitable for your life to become a chaos, of which you can not go out and end irremediably in a difficult situation, where you will make your life much more difficult.
That is why, the one who does not learn, will end up in that parallel world, a life full of failures and disappointments, which are totally avoidable. Listening to constructive criticisms, they can help a lot to understand, you need to change, it is no use, to think that you are a “perfect”, that makes no mistakes and what they tell you the rest, they do, because they are envious. To think that way, it is nonsense, because it is true that there are people who will tell you thinks, to make you feel bad, unemployment there will also be people who love you and want you to go well.
So, you must realize, who you have at your side, and think that you prefer, a lot of friends, or the quality of friendships. How many times, we haven't heard this expression. Possibly many times, and it is because it is true, friendships, or rather true friendships, are usually few, others are simply acquaintances, who will not be when you need it most.
In time, you will realize, that your circle of friends, will make you smaller, because you start to realize, who are your true friends and who do not. It is important to realize that, to avoid taking future disappointments, that could in some cases, affect you very emotionally.
Consequently, in life, there is always a new opportunity, which you should know how to use, because those opportunities in many cases, have an expiration date!!!
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You speak so much truth.. my head is spinning of ideas to answer, but at least a few things from my point of view.
Burning desire, clear goals and tasks, that is what leads to fulfilment from my experience. You set a goal based on something you dream about and start to work on, days, weeks, months, years, even decades sometimes and magically it happens, life transforms.. hehe i can say that's true because i experienced it.. there are situations where i stand and stop somewhere and say to me:
"Man.. you thought about hat many years ago and now you're here! At the point you wanted to be and you had so many doubts.. but it's now reality!
That are unbelievable moments you can just experience for yourself i think.
I experienced a point in life where i thought there is nothing more to learn. I'd said that to a friend at the time and was absolutely serious about, not knowing how stupid i was. But the truth was i was running too long on full speed and simply burned out.. and yes there was instantly a second chance to restart, to get a new consciousness for my life and i was thankful for the experience and also that i learned about my limits because it's important to know what you as human being are able to achieve and so sad if you never try.
That last thing is something where i wanna answer the following question at some point in my life with a clear "Yes!" Here it is:
"Have you everything humanly possible done to live a happy childhood?"
It's so easy today to live a 50% or 75% life..
That is now a long time ago and yes many friends are also gone forever because they were no real friends. There is cool anecdote by Brian Tracy and i try to reproduce..
if you're in the twenties you think everybody cares about you, your parents, your friends.. In your thirties you're annoyed because less and less people care about you and you think they are bad.. finally in your fourties you realize that no one cares about you and your life, because we think 95% of our time just of ourselves if we want it or not.. that's our nature." But there are emotions, relationships and we create good feelings with good things we do for others, a win-win situation.
There is also a old saying "Sometimes your best friend could be your worst enemy!" because they can hold you back if they are not in line with your thinking. And Yes, life is always changing, your best friend is suddendly far away not just because of his new location also with his mindset. So always think for yourself, be careful, don't allow others to control your life. Friendship can be fantastic but also must based on the right intentions and interests to create more energy than alone.
And yes, i totally agree life is just wonderful, each day is a great opportunity, whether it's a bad or a good one. If you totally messed up all things you can make a reset and start from scratch, never ever look back in anger or sadness, life is to short. Today we have so many choices. Think alone what the crypto scene created for so many people.. here on STEEMIT for example and there are so many distractions, possibilities to spend time or to invest in something where your whole heart is in.
Thank you! 👍
Excellent comment, thanks for sharing your point of view, so wonderful!!! Greetings.
"In time, you will realize, that your circle of friends, will make you smaller, because you start to realize, who are your true friends and who do not."
People come, people go. The real ones still stay.
Besides, when you're older, you only need a few.
You're absolutely right, you do not have to have many friends.
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