Love but love
Huiming told me that she loved her boyfriend, but they are usually very little communication, because her boyfriend is very busy, for huiming rarely reply sent him a message, but her boyfriend and never express clearly don't like her, do not have any intention to break up. Not to mention the daily love and care of each other, huiming has no sense of existence at all, and gradually gets frustrated.
Just, huiming a brother say to her, the elder brother and huiming boyfriend is different, every morning he would send a greeting message, told huiming breakfast again, to go to work, a day, brother will give huiming, sent some mood from time to time to share news of huiming hair past, brother always seconds back, and huiming, if you don't answer her brother always sent words of concern, says he worries. The elder brother is also a successful person, actually also very busy, but every day after work comes home, the elder brother will inform huiming, no matter how late and tired, will accompany huiming to chat online for a while. As soon as there is time, the master will drive to huiming house and wait for her and take her out to play. Huiming on brother got the unprecedented concern, this is her boyfriend had never done before, michelle and I said, she really felt what is warm, she and her boyfriend proposed break up, she decided to fully accept senior the warm love.
In and brother get along with days, huiming really feeling never had the feeling of being loved and meticulous care, brother is also a special gentle people, said any things would slow, never lost his temper, even if be huiming misunderstanding, never angry about, over and over and not any huiming investigated.
But it didn't take long for the warm, sunny day to come, and she told me that she began to hate her brother, and was so sick of him that she felt sick of hearing his voice. Oh, my god, how could there be such a contrast? Huiming says that she doesn't like brother, from the start, don't like it, just brother when she was the most frustrated, gave her want to love, that she wanted to warm, she could not resist, she thought that love can become a true love, a woman is not the final is a warm feeling! But, from day to day contact down, senior care rather than into a true love, have become a burden, a mother-in-law mother tired feeling, a redundant constraints, love can never bring any sweet feeling.
Huiming said that now, just hear the words of the teacher's love, as if he heard the tang's monk singing "only you" in the western tour, full of uneasiness, the heart will be a strange irritability. And she and her boyfriend together before, though often neglected also never understand the feeling of warm, but still remains in the heart of his love and love, for he does not love brother, no matter how much he gave a warm caring, can't get that kind of strong love.
In the end, huiming chose to distance away from his brother. I am very supportive of her decision, and no matter how much we love the warmth, we must obey our hearts and bravely refuse. No woman does not want to be warm, do not want to be loved, zhang xiaxian also once said that women often can not tell the love and true love, finally with the person who CARES for her. However, even with the person who care about her walk, she would still be like huiming in one day to this kind of love, because we will not get warm feelings, but the person who really can let their warm, if it is not that person, warm feelings again, is just like drinking water.