Removing the Roadblocks

in #life8 years ago

“The person interested in success has to learn to view failure as a healthy,
inevitable part of the process getting to the top.”
Joyce Brothers

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How many times do you think that people try to achieve their new
goals before they give up? The average is less than one time. Most
people give up before they even make the first try. And the reason
they give up is because of all of the obstacles, difficulties, problems
and roadblocks that immediately appear as soon as you decide to do
something that you have never done before.

The fact is that successful people fail far more often than unsuccessful
people. Successful people try more things, fall down, pick themselves
up and try again, over and over again before they win through.
Unsuccessful people try a few things, if they try at all, and very soon
quit and go back to what they were doing before.

Temporary Failure Always Precedes Success

You should expect to fail and fall short many times before you
achieve your goals. You should look upon failure and temporary
defeat as a part of the price that you pay on your road to the success
that you will inevitably achieve. As Henry Ford once said, “Failure is
merely an opportunity to more intelligently begin again.”

Once you have decided upon your goal, ask yourself, “Why am I not
there already?” What is holding you back? Why haven’t you
achieved that goal up to now?
Identify all the obstacles that stand between you and your goal. Write
down every single thing that you can think of that might be blocking
you or slowing you down from moving ahead.

Think In Terms of Solutions
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Remember, “Once you have decided upon your goal, ask yourself, “Why am I not
there already?” What is holding you back? Why haven’t you
achieved that goal up to now?

Identify all the obstacles that stand between you and your goal. Write
down every single thing that you can think of that might be blocking
you or slowing you down from moving ahead.

Think In Terms of Solutions

Remember, “You become what you think about – most of the time.”in the
area of problems and difficulties, successful people have a particular
way of thinking that we call “solution-orientation.”

Successful people think about solutions, most of the time.
Unsuccessful people think about problems and difficulties most of
the time. Solution-oriented people are constantly looking for ways to
get over, around and past the obstacles that stand in their ways.
Problem oriented people talk continuously about their problems,
about who or what caused them, how unhappy or angry they are and
how unfortunate it is that they have occurred. Solution oriented
people, on the other hand, simply ask the question, “How can we
solve this?” and then take action to deal with the problem.

Between you and anything you want to accomplish, there will always
be problems or obstacles of some kind. This is why success is
sometimes defined as the ability to solve problems. Personal leadershipYou become what you think about – most of the time.” In the
area of problems and difficulties, successful people have a particular
way of thinking that we call “solution-orientation.”
Successful people think about solutions, most of the time.
Unsuccessful people think about problems and difficulties most of
the time. Solution-oriented people are constantly looking for ways to
get over, around and past the obstacles that stand in their ways.
Problem oriented people talk continuously about their problems,
about who or what caused them, how unhappy or angry they are and
how unfortunate it is that they have occurred. Solution oriented
people, on the other hand, simply ask the question, “How can we
solve this?” and then take action to deal with the problem.
Between you and anything you want to accomplish, there will always
be problems or obstacles of some kind. This is why success is
sometimes defined as the ability to solve problems. Personal leadership

Remove the Roadblocks:

  1. Identify a major goal and then ask, “Why aren’t I there
    already? What is holding me back?” List everything you can
    think of.

  2. Look into yourself and face the possibility that it is your own
    fears and doubts that are your biggest roadblocks to success.

  3. Identify the constraint or limiting factor, in yourself or the
    situation, that sets the speed at which you achieve your goal.

  4. Develop several definitions of your major problem or
    obstacle. Ask, “What else is the problem?”

  5. Define your best solution as a goal, set a deadline, make a
    plan of action and then get busy on your plan. Work on it
    every day until the problem is solved or the obstacle is
    removed..

CONCLUSION

Now is the right time to remove all the roadblocks because tomorrow maybe be late......

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This is really inspiring! Successful people focus on the solution while unsuccessful people focus on the problems. Failure is inevitable. What really matters is how we respond to failure!
Thanks!

I just hope people will try and figure out the solution to their and stop blaming other if they fall

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Well spoken Bro

Really inspiring...welldone

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