Why Are You Afraid To Talk About Your Past?

in #life3 years ago

We're afraid to talk about our past and our failures and fears, out of fear that we'll say something that will make us look bad. We're afraid to talk about these things because we are worried that we will say something that will bring shame on us or that we'll reveal something about ourselves that we are not supposed to be revealing. We're afraid to talk about our past failures in love relationships because we are embarrassed that we had a falling out with a loved one and we are afraid that if we do have another love relationship that we will be vulnerable. We're afraid to talk about our past because we are worried that if we do, it will break us and bring shame on us.


In essence we are saying that those people that did terrible things in the past aren't worthy of living. This is not true. Many people in this world were not perfect in the past but they are still alive today and can take part in the world in a positive way. The fact that we are scared to talk about our past mistakes and failures is in itself proof that we are not worthy of any love or any happiness. It's time to face the fact that you are a broken human being inside.

This past failure should teach you to never again depend on someone else to save you from your own failures and your own life fears. If you learn to depend on no one to help you get through your problems then you will learn to depend on no one else for your happiness and your well-being. People who don't have past issues should never expect to have happy and successful lives because their past issues have tainted their whole personality. People with past trauma should never expect to have successful relationships.

People with past mistakes should never expect to have any sort of relationship since their whole personality is flawed due to their past. People with past trauma and other painful experiences should be left alone and should spend most of their time alone in order to heal themselves from their painful experiences. After their healing is complete, they can start having healthy relationships and build a better life for themselves. But since most of these individuals are not able to do that, they have to fear talking about their past in order to protect themselves from possible pain and rejection.

As mentioned earlier, it's a natural human tendency to be afraid to talk about our own past mistakes. But if we are going to spend our whole life avoiding the uncomfortable topics of our past, then there is no point in living a healthy and happy life. It will only be a waste of time since we're not going to find peace and happiness by avoiding uncomfortable topics.

Some people actually go through their entire lives hiding their past mistakes and their own identities from themselves because they are too afraid to reveal their true selves. They are too ashamed to let people know about their past life because of the fear that people may reject them and be angry. This is actually the worst thing that could happen to a person since he or she will never be able to enjoy his or her true identity. But by facing our past and talking about it, we are not making ourselves enemies; we are simply helping ourselves to grow as individuals. When we're able to accept ourselves and others, then we will be able to accept others and the world around us.

The main problem with people who have deep fears about talking about their past is that they are not willing to discuss their past with other people or to accept the reality that exist in this world. They are so used to living a life where they hide their past mistakes from everyone, including themselves. Only by accepting our own past mistakes can we get rid of our own fears and identity problems. Once we are able to get rid of our own fears and identity problems, we will be able to live a happy life without having to hide anything about ourselves. The only way to start doing this is to talk about our past and share what happened to us in our past.

Once we're able to face our past and discuss it with other people, we will be able to gain a lot of new knowledge. Through discussing our past, we will be able to learn new things, and we will be able to avoid repeating the same mistakes in our future. By getting to understand our past properly, we will be able to avoid the things that we did in the past and be able to live a better life. So, if you're afraid to discuss your past with other people, don't be afraid - talk about it and take full advantage of this opportunity.

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