Compromising without compromising oneself.

in #romania6 years ago (edited)

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A not so subtle difference.


There is a huge difference between making compromises in certain situations and compromising yourself.

Because we are highly social beings, most of the things that matter are built together. Cooperation is one of those fundamental elements we need in order to move things forward. But this is not always easy, communities are a mixture of feelings, visions, approaches, desires, gains, and intent. Thus disagreements are imminent.

One of the best tools for dealing with situations of possible conflict is to find compromises. Basically, a compromise is an agreement to act in a third way, which is not unilaterally beneficial to one of the players but is mutually advantageous for both.

So it becomes apparent that for a community to move forward, its members need to understand how cooperation works and find the best ways to compromise.

However, one of the other things that are very important in a community is individuality. Each member comes with a set of core principles that define oneself. And there will be situations in which some will be confronted with compromising one of their core beliefs, which is a totally different story.

What can you do when a situation demands you act in a way that betrays what you know to be true and defines who you are, for the sake of moving forward. That's a tough one and I won't even try to give any advice here, but I'll give my honest opinion.

I don't want to walk in a direction I don't believe in, so if I'm going to encounter this situation, going against my core beliefs is a deal breaker. But if I really believe in that goal, I will find a way to pursue it without compromising myself.

So, with compromises, we will need to walk a very fine line between finding mutually advantageous solutions and going against our core self.

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The road ahead.


Part of the Romanian community here on Steemit is trying to come together and build @steemromania, a page designed to support the community in different ways. Not an easy task, but a worthwhile one for sure.

We are at the very beginning and because I have enough time on my hands, I kept in contact with a number of community members that are actively contributing. All of them have a desire to help and move things to the moon, and back if need. All of them came with wonderful ideas and I love them for that.

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However, due to the decentralized environment, no one vision will be put in action. All of us can contribute to the end goal, but it will look radically different from what each of us had envisioned at the beginning.

There will be no central authority dictating what needs to be done, we have to figure this out for ourselves and then find ways of bridging our visions. We need to find a way of acting as one, without losing our individuality. This will be our test!

From my personal point of view, I will not lie, steal or cheat, or be an accomplice to such behavior. Apart from this, I will try to work with anything is thrown my way.

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Good mentality. Compromise of the core beliefs is like rapping yourself. Wish you all the best in this journey and I hope the romanian community will make the right choices. Can't wait to see the progress.

I can't wait to see the progress either, I hope we build something that can really make a difference :)

Always where there's a will there's a way!

Exactly, always! :)

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