Very explicit, but also very honest, something that needs to be appreciated. I guess, today masturbation is too simple and a convenient way to get what we want without having to do anything for it.

Masturbation is instant gratification, a sufficient replacement activity, extremely cheap and omnipresent and literally satisfying.

My take would be that these are the reasons why it became almost normal to do so instead of having real relationships with real sexual pleasure.

You stepping out of that and trying to expand your personality is excellent. But I don't see too many leaving their shells - men and women alike - because life is effort and success bears the risk of failure.