Raising in the direction of love

The arrival of a child in a family is a difficult and long journey for both the child and the parents. Maybe that's why most fathers and mothers know exactly what their son or daughter will be and in the process of upbringing they try to make them that way.

Parents are so busy with attitudes for their child that they do not see in him the very gift that heaven has given them. Parents are not motivated to observe their children's inclinations in order to accept their talent or unique abilities. They are busy with their expectations and plans, which they dreamed about on the way to the hospital.

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How can parents accept that my child and I are not the same? How can you learn to accompany your son or daughter along the path that he or she chooses for himself? After all, then the parents will be able to recognize the child as a person in their own free choice, who will follow their own path, will pave their way through the back streets of their own life.

Upbringing is a process that has no unambiguous definition. One of the explanations for this is its polysemy. Upbringing can be called a social phenomenon, or activity, or a process of interaction. Each of these definitions seems to be correct, but none of them makes it possible to characterize the process of education itself.

Representatives of the Institute of Ideology and the Academy of Healing consider upbringing as a purposeful management of the process of personality development, creating conditions for the development of a child in order to define the child as a part of an integral society.

"According to his way." Words from the Bible that mean: simply give the child the right direction, the direction of love for his neighbor.

Let the child direct all his efforts to the implementation of this direction in accordance with his qualities, his character. And adults will simply allow and be able to help the child express themselves on this path with the help of all the talents and properties given from above.

We must understand the individuality of the individual as the originality and uniqueness of the human mental world. The main thing is that the child should be directed and apply all his natural inclinations to love and bestowal on his neighbor. Because a special set of natural inclinations and a unique combination of inclinations are given by God to everyone for a specific purpose.

Let's let every child realize them. And then we will leave to the younger generation the individuality of the individual, giving in the process of education simple explanations of how and for what purpose, to use it correctly.

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