Joyful children motivate us to the way to happiness
It's very simple - to live in such a way as to constantly find something new in the world, which I have not yet achieved, but I want to achieve, because for me it is interesting, attractive. I am always in the desire to discover a new world. This should be our trend.
It's easy to say, but really, how to be in it? The problem is that, from the age of 16, 17 and on, we are doing what we do not want to do. We do not find pleasure in this, but we are forced, because we are forced. And our whole life is like that - forced. And children are the opposite. They have a lot of opportunities and they always find something for themselves that fills them.
How can we in our forced pursuits, while preserving our family, home, earnings, health, by compelled communication with various departments, to find sources of happiness? A question. If we find, we will be like children: always in a good mood, full of life - let's be happy! We will be able to find this sensation, this pleasure only on condition that in all our pursuits we discover a new relationship between us.
From this we can be filled with the spirit of life. Having such relationships with others, I get from them new impressions for a new life, for new relationships, new inner fillings. If I am all the time in a society that excites me for such wonderful participation, then both my work and my ordinary life become like a game. It doesn't matter if it's a small society or a big one, but, of course, the bigger, the more extensive it is, the better.
I get from them new impressions for a new life, for new relationships, new inner fillings. If I am all the time in a society that excites me for such wonderful participation, then both my work and my ordinary life become like a game. It doesn't matter if it's a small society or a big one, but, of course, the bigger, the more extensive it is, the better. I get from them new impressions for a new life, for new relationships, new inner fillings.
If I am all the time in a society that excites me for such wonderful participation, then both my work and my ordinary life become like a game. It doesn't matter if it's a small society or a big one, but, of course, the bigger, the more extensive it is, the better.
What is the difference between playing and doing business? In the game, I get pleasure right on the spot from what I do. In business, I think about how I can make money and what I can achieve, and maybe pleasure will come at the end. Now I have to walk two kilometers to some place. I don't want to put it off. And suddenly a friend or friend appears next to me, and I discover that we are on the way, we have something to talk about.
This path becomes a walk. I walk, and the pleasure for me is the process itself, and not what I will achieve at the end. Children enjoy every step they take. And we suffer from movement, action and only want to achieve the goal. Therefore, the question is psychological: how can we fill our whole life with actions so that it becomes like a game? Then we would get pleasure from this game every second.
These can be difficult actions that require a lot of energy, but if I feel pleasure on the spot, I feel compensation - it's like a game. How does a person go in for sports? He spends a lot of energy, calories, gets tired, but he wants to do it, he gets pleasure. We know that this is the result of the release of various substances in the body.
It all depends on the society that involves me in this game. Here we demand to create an environment that forms such an attitude to life, to family, to work, which will give me the desire to do this. And so that in this environment everything is mutual - giving, receiving, respect, caring for a good mood. Then I will be filled with wonderful relationships with others and others with me. It turns out that the action itself does not matter.
It is important to learn from the environment to take pleasure in the action, which turns work into pleasure. And here the reward comes immediately, and not after a great and prolonged effort. We see the program of our actions in creating public opinion in each situation, its pressure on a person, in order to form a person's attitude towards society, towards himself, towards life, towards his responsibilities in life, so that he perceives it beautifully and favorably.
These conditions are not easy to create. We talked in the last program about how to build a happy family. This requires specialists. A person cannot fulfill all our advice on his own, we need specialists who work in this direction and can advise us on how to proceed.
It all depends on whether a person receives respect from his familiar environment; can he, doing something, share with others those states that are passing; is receiving support, advice and assistance; how can we accompany all his actions, which he feels not as suffering of necessity, but as mutual play with others. There should be a connection and very close contact with educators, with society.
Man spends his day as usual but each time he finds an opportunity to participate in some action together with others. It turns into a game, a picnic, a theater and something mutual. Thanks to this reciprocity, he can receive fulfillment, and this is always the main thing. Lack of happiness depends on the environment, on educators, supporters, on those who correctly form a person's attitude to his neighbor, to society.
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