Letter to the promise of the ring
To the married man,
You’ve done quite well. I see your efforts. You look at your wife and see her. You look at the young executive and don’t. Despite the tight skirt, low cut shirt, and brilliant mind. You listen, more than allow your eyes to wander. I wonder if your eyes will lust after more.
Exchanging speech, will this be your downfall?
Convincing speech, she’s educated and your eyes stay focused. You’ve done quite well.
I see your efforts. I see respect. I find you proud.
Dear married man,
Your eyes do not wander for lust. Steadfast, even your speech doesn’t flirt. I see you winning. Laughing, joking, at no point would your eyes put you to shame. She calls you Husband with pride. You’ve earned your right to stand tall. In the office, your name is clear. At their expense or your own, the jokes are clean and fun for all. You’ve done quite well. I see your respect.
Dear married man,
Gaining respect with each step. You walk a straight line with eyes only for your one and only. Avoiding the fire, eliminating the game, strengthening the gold ring promise. Proving once again, that eyes can train to neither look nor touch. You’ve done quite well. I see your efforts.
I see your respect. I find you proud.
Thank you for writing this. I don't think enough people notice these types of men, and they are all over the place. I consider myself one of them. I seem to always find myself in close work relationships with women, but I would never consider being unfaithful to my wife.
I'll say it like this. My wife was end-game. I won. I feel no need to try to win again. I already have the prize. I see beautiful women all the time. I can appreciate their beauty, but I do not desire them. I guard our relationship with my love and will put up a barrier if I ever felt anything starting to threaten that. Thanks for sharing.
Your wife is your end game. You are beyond blessed to have found her, be loved by her, and be her safe place. I only pray others will remind my future husband of his blessing as much I do for other wives.
Excellent response and your marriage, your mindset, and your commitment to protecting that commitment is beautiful. Good luck! Keep being an example to other men!
i told you you have amazing skills ! love it :)
and is that your young bro in the pic? a future lesson for him? loool
hahah, thank you so much. I wrote this a while ago and couldn't get it to the point that I liked. I still think I posted it to early, but maybe the second time will be a homerun. Thanks for stopping by each time. You are awesome!
I really Love how it read. no more room to look at more. but care and respect for what is sealed by promise of the golden ring.
Thank you, I couldn’t believe I wrote that line either lol. Sometimes I amaze myself
great observations ;)
I love my husband so much he is a very respectful
That is amazing, he is beyond lucky and blessed to have you in his life!
Great description of a married man who had his mind and eyes set only to his one and only wife.
This was inspired by a coworker that I really admire. I pray all husbands love their wife like he does. It's so beautiful. It's the kind of provider, protector, and lover all women pray for.
Wow @kubbyelizabeth . That was simply beautiful..
Thank you very much
I do not know this feeling, after I'm not married but I love to have a husband, an understanding, an eternal relationship
Me too, hopefully one day we both will
thank you, one day, sooon :)
This is a very nice write up. In Nigeria where I come from there is this general belief that all men cheat and if he is not cheating now, he will soon start but I'm of the school of thought that believe there are men who don't cheat. Men who stay loyal and true to their wives. Men who understand what fidelity is and no matter the short and tight skirt temptations they face in the office or anywhere never yield. @dearmarriedman please stay true
I hope more men learn to not cheat
WOw wow wow... like this blew my mind.. I love this kubbyelizabeth... keep it up.. this is a nice work here
hahah, thank you very much. Didn't think you would like it so much. Thanks for stopping by!
Nice one Kubby.
Does it encourage you to settle down Birthday queen?
What do you think?
I think I'm more likely to be the other woman in this story.
Probably, but it will only take one amazing person to make you change your mind.