What to do when he leaves?

Nothing. This is the short answer and even the shorter inspiration in this subject. Who's leaving, you or he? He. Ok. It's sad. It's sad.

It is as if your whole world is darkening as if all your world is falling apart, especially if it is the one with whom your whole world has been connected and if it is the one to whom you have all given it. Or not.

He may just have done you a favor when he's gone. You know that everything that happens to us has to happen to us and when it happened to us, that is how it should have happened.

Yes, I know that when it happens to you, all this is just dry philosophizing. And you think nobody knows what it is. It's probably not easy for you.

There are all sorts of connections and different endings to these connections, but sadness is what we often meet when we send someone.

Sadness comes after a loss. The loss brings sadness.

Why did you leave? Why did you do that? What did I deserve? What's wrong with me? Why did I miss it? Do you know how he hurt me? What did I do? What have I not done?

After he leaves, the questions remain. Tears and snots too.

And you know what is normal?

Now watch out. To experience your sadness. This is normal. Do not oppress her and try not to replace her with some upbeat. Just go through this. Suffer it, do not circumvent it. Do not run from it. Go through it. You will suffer damage, for a while you will see nothing but pain except sorrow, you will be weak, you will not be in front of people, you will be afraid you are not for people. But this is the situation. Our love makes us weak, not strong. Our pain makes us strong. Then comes the power. And whatever unbearable "now" always comes next.

And now comes the "left" You're wondering how to treat your attitude to it. Let me tell you what it is advisable to do with the "left". Nothing. Just leave it.

I know she's nasty and sometimes frustration makes you ask, wait for answers, and think you deserve to know why and how? Why? Why did he so? He has forgotten you, he is gone, and you still chew him and you still do not let him go. What is your weight? Do not humiliate yourself and do not turn around where you have said you have no place.

Girl, stand up. Feel good. Take your breath and take a step forward. Not back. Next.

Do not ask for anything from him. You did nothing. He has done something that is his illusion, his dilemma, his action and his decision, and the consequences are for him. Do not run after him to explain to him what a mistake he has made. Come on, do not save him so much from him. Do not want to explain, do not want to apologize, do not want to close the door when you leave, because you do not want to get up and close this door yourself. Sama decided you would crush her or shut her up quietly. You shut up.

He's gone. You're staying. Not alone, but without him. Not without meaning, but with yourself.

And do not forget. You can not make someone stand, watch you, love you, wait for you. Do not leave.

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Much love - Krisii

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