Have Confidence
A jamboree had gone to the residential area in which we lived and one night I ran with my two youngsters. My child who was around 9 years of age at the time needed to spend his keep going couple of dollars on a diversion which included tossing a ball through a b-ball circle which was very little greater than the ball.
I attempted to persuade him that the amusement was too difficult to win and that he ought to perhaps spend his cash on a ride or another diversion that may be less demanding. He continued demanding he could win the ball game. At long last, after much whining, I gave in and let him have a go at, feeling that it would all before long be finished and he would perceive that it was so difficult to sink that ball.
He gave the man working his cash, took the ball and continued to sink the ball through the bin. He picked his prize and gazed toward me and said "You didn't figure I could do it yet I knew I could." My heart sank...I took in an awesome exercise in child rearing that day, because of my child. Never say can't simply say can.