Someone stalking on you
I can’t believe my friend just stalked his girlfriend whereabouts and her activities, in front of my own eyes! I thought all these while there are a very loving couple.
Apparently there is this APP that can know exactly where a location of another mobile phone, and also be able to check the Whatsapp, Wechat messages. All within a single APP. Don’t ask me what the name of the APP is because I didn’t ask my friend. Even if I know, I don’t think I want to share it out. Because I don’t encourage this.
Here’s the conversation I have with my friend
Me: Why did you checking your girlfriend whereabouts?
Friend: Just want to make sure she had reached her destination safely.
Me: Oh, come on. Cut those shit off me. Don’t you trust her?
Friend: Smile. She betrayed me once before.
Me: Then why are you still with her? Have you forgiven her completely?
Friend: Yes.
Me: Have you heard about Forgive AND Forget? If you cannot forget, you haven’t forgiven.
My point of view is, if you feel insecure, suspect your partner is up to something, and you start to stalk your partner, you are creating trouble into your relationship.
Perhaps stalker may ask themselves, why am I stalking my partner? Are you wanting to end this relationship and just looking for some reason to put the blame on your partner? Or you really have an actual gut feeling that he/she might be up to no good? Or this is just your act of curiosity?
No matter what is the reason, you are putting the relationship on the chopping block. If your partner somehow know that you are a stalker, you can kiss good bye this relationship. No one on earth would accept a stalker as lifelong partner.
Before it got worst, I would like to encourage the stalkers to definitely unplug this. Being together is all about TRUST. You are searching for your life partner, a companion that you trusted in your remaining life time. You will be very tired if you spend the rest of your life suspecting your partner is up to something no good and keep on stalking.
Life is too short for all these. Do spend the time to cherish the moment and appreciate your partner.
It happened once, it WILL happen again. Nice to see, nice to hold, once broken, forever gone.
and then cry regret..
If one find that one cannot trust his/her partner anymore, it's time to move on and stop wasting each other's time.
exactly.. being together is to find out if both suitable for each other to become life partner right? If found not the right one then just let go, move on and continue looking for Mr Right or Ms Right
yoy are right. and i think the stalker wont be happy also in the long run as he no longer is a partner, he can become CSI ;p
Some become stalker just because they love to become CSI tho.. haha
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