I am an anti-feminist, feminist

in #blog7 years ago

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dictionary defines feminism:

"the political, economic and social equality theory of gender". Through this description, I should characterize myself as a feminist, but modern feminism has taken a different path than I can relate to.

Should women have the right to vote? absolute!

Should women be able to go to college? of course!

Should women choose careers and compensation according to their professional standards? Yes!

All of these and more are available to women across the country. We are free and successful, career driven women or nurturing home stay moms or both. These are the basic rights of women in our society, but not the basic rights of many other societies around the world.

Some women may say that they can relate to most people, but the facts are facts. About 60% of girls are now allowed to enjoy these basic rights in our country. One thing I will mention about Western feminism here is that American women take it for granted that they have all the privileges they inherited from Susan Anthony, Alice Paul, Elizabeth Cady Stanton and others. They began to fight for their voices to hear.

The "Women's Rights Movement" is, but is very necessary, but what do you fight for and win? History has done most of the work for us. I am not very naive to think that misogyny has been completely eradicated, or that some men will never call you a “mad woman driver” but women have more advantages than we trust.

There are many places and outlets for women and their needs. More and more men become fathers of stay-at-home families because women decide to work full-time. A woman screamed and harassed, abused or raped, and usually the man was found guilty only after being proved innocent in public opinion courts.

After a divorce, the mother is still more likely to have custody of her children. We must not forget the rights granted by our God, which no one can do. It is the ability to grow, nurture, and live. The connection between mother and child begins nine months before it enters the world, which gives us a gift that no one can experience.

If someone remembers the TV show "Designing Women", you may remember Julia Sugarbaker's character. She is my idea of ​​feminism... A woman with a clever, strong, sharp tongue. She treats herself like a lady, but she never allows anyone to control her.

If it is not for millions, Julia Sugarbaker will never reduce her dress in the female genitals as a discussion of female genitalia (in detail) to discuss the struggle of the monthly menstrual cycle.

She has too many courses to make her own tacky show. Not that she wouldn’t say what she thought if she felt it was necessary to do so. However, she always does this, so that she does not require respect, but in the end, you can not help but respect how she put forward her argument.

If a man is examined at dinner or opens the door for her, feminism does not mind. This is not a "micro failure" but a simple gentleman behavior. This will not make her a woman less, nor should she do so.

Feminism does not necessarily mean that you complain about men or belittle them to show the importance of women.

As a girl, I hope other girls can be strong, independent, smart and capable. Giving them sympathetic women is my goal. I don't believe in creating a victim without a victim.

Responsible for yourself, find a person who thank you and remember, it does not matter to become a woman. It may be possible to wear clothes and high heels or spend an hour or two on hair and makeup. You can sometimes be emotional, cry in sad movies, or laugh at funny chicks. It does not matter if you choose to be a home mom and raise your child if this is what you want to do. If you can make you happy, it is possible to take care of your future husband. For you, admiring a person's praise is absolutely free of problems, and will not try to find an excuse to be offended by it... because sometimes it is just like a good gesture.

The women's rights movement has undergone an ugly turn in our society, causing more disagreements among women, while women are less consistent. It is the best "wonder girl". Instead of cheering each other, we encourage each other.

It has become everything that modern feminists must recognize, or you leave the club. You cannot be conservative and cannot be an anti-abortionist. You must believe that climate change is more important than national security.
Based on current liberal women, conservative values ​​make her no longer a woman. Her views on feminism are no longer applicable or accepted by today's standards - even if she still believes in empowering every woman, not just Those who agree with her point of view. However, now after my extensive research and knowledge, I am very happy to call myself an anti-feminist feminist.

Cheers!

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