The Ways to Love Yourself that is an Important Thing!
So far most people have experienced a journey of love with others. By loving someone else, someone is willing to sacrifice anything to make loved ones happy. Then what about loving yourself? Not many people have loved themselves.
The ability to love yourself relates to how a person treats himself well, like giving attention to the person he loves.
Loving yourself is a combination of emotional mastery, self-acceptance, self-awareness, kindness, to respect for yourself. Not only give respect and respect to others, but you also need to respect yourself sincerely. The form of loving yourself can be through words, thoughts, and actions.
Giving positive words to yourself, so that the mind is always awake to think also positive things. In addition, the most important thing is the real act of loving yourself. Give attention to yourself, if you usually giving gifts to people you love, then giving a gift to yourself at special moments. There's no need to wait for someone else to give you a present when you can giving to yourself a gift as a form of love, then you can feel happy.
How to Love Yourself
There are many ways you can love yourself. Of course, everyone has different ways of treating themselves as best they can.
However, you can start loving yourself by doing things like the following:
- Eliminate negative perceptions about yourself
Eliminate negative thoughts about yourself. Cultivate confidence, but not pride about the strengths you have.
- Accept shortcomings
Some people do not easily accept shortcomings in themselves. Many people find themselves useless because they have many shortcomings. Loving is a recipient, if you love someone you will receive that person well. Do the same for yourself. Accept the shortcomings that are in you, because everyone has their own shortcomings.
- Maximize the advantages possessed
Everyone is born with their respective potentials and strengths. Understand yourself and find the strengths that you have. Develop and maximize, making you focus on strengths rather than weaknesses.
Is It Important to Love Yourself?
Loving yourself is very important. By loving yourself, you can treat yourself well, accept what you have, and always be grateful. This is what can make you happier living your daily life.
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interested subject my friend
That is an interesting article and will make many to think, because we automatically think that of course we love ourselves, what else? While reading your post I just thought about another extreme in some persons when they love themselves too much so called Narcissistic personality. Luckily there are not many of them but if then it is obvious too much. I believe as adults we all aware about and have it under control but, hey, when we carry out some task to the best end we have a moment of glory and proud of ourselves. What do you think about this part of human character?
I like your last narrative. I realized that I was someone like you mentioned, I would be proud when I could finish something I had started. In my opinion, this is normal as a form of self-respect.
I think the most difficult part here is accepting my shortcomings. I see others go through something similar too where we beat ourselves up in order to perform at the maximum level especially when we compare our abilities to that of others. Perhaps self acceptance is a good step before working on improving. Great write up and thank you for sharing!
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I realize that is a difficult part, but we need to know that we can measure abilities and make an assessment of ourselves. Therefore make it a deficiency as your motivation to rise, no one is perfect. Every deficiency given by God will be covered with one other advantage.
Thank you for spreading the positivity. As you mentioned deficiencies can surely be our motivation if we think of them that way. That is a great advice.
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This is really nice and interesting post on Ways to Love Yourself is an Important Thing. thanks for share with us..
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Motivasi yang berfaedah di saat hati gelisah dengan kondisi yang terjadi hari ini.
Sangat bijak aduen loen.
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Terimakasih.. Saat hati gelisah, masih ada lantai untuk bersujud :)
Amazing one here buddy, the thing I find difficult is accepting shortcoming but definitely it's gotta come for that change to take place, thanks for writing
Yes, it is a difficult thing, but we still have to live it, and God will not test a servant beyond his limits.
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You're right in that respite really, thanks again for writing
My pleasure :)
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