[PW#19] We can’t push anything to anybody

Hello @ocd lovers...

Tonight, I am going to talk about Forcing the will of others and this often happens without us knowing. It will take about three minutes, so I hope you can read it until the end.

Well, In this life, we will always meet with other people and this does not happen by accident, everything has been arranged in the scenario of God, every meeting we have with the others must have a purpose, sometimes our meeting teaches us or we teach them. Because we can learn from everyone or we can take the lessons from them.

On the other hand, we cannot force people to like us and we also cannot force others to stop hating us, we cannot force others to understand our situation and push them to like what we want, we also cannot stop others who always insults and looks down on us. We cannot force others to have a vision and mission and agree with us.

Just Know my friend... everyone has their own views, everyone has the right to follow his own heart, everyone has the right to give his own assessment to us. The disappointment we feel or the others ignore us can be a lesson in how we are able to look deeply into ourselves, we do not need to feel the most correct man and quickly draw your own conclusions and even hate others again.

Let's do introspection and look deeper into what is wrong and right in us. Maybe without us knowing, we have made many people who are disappointed, hurt, neglected, overwhelmed by our words, attitudes and our actions. Maybe this situation makes them stay away and keep their distance from us. The truth is, in our deepest hearts, maybe we don't want to do and we don't want to disappoint them, but maybe circumstances force us to behave like that. Something uncomfortable for us, something we do not want, actually gives its own lessons for us.

We just need and try to learn, learn to hold our ego, we learn to manage our attitude to make the others disappointed to us, we learn to manage our words do not hurt, learn from our existence does not make others difficult, learn that our existence is more useful to others. Let us learn to not hold grudges with others, let us learn to not insult and look down on others easily, let us learn to remain our sincere and pray for kindness to others.

Maybe one way is we just let our creativity works, let our works speak, let our achievements prove. Maybe praying for others is the best way to repay someone's insults, repay others' hatred for us by still being kind to them. If all we can do positively, then the positive results will also be achieved.

Because Lao Tze once said, "Don't force your personal will to reflect your strength." Just Imagine, how our ideas and desires are approved by others, you will be proud of yourself. Because personal ambition or self-often interest makes us insist and force our desires or thoughts on others. Though our personal will is not necessarily for the common good.

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@khaimi.

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